2006-11-08 02:53:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I took our marrige for granted I really thought things were fine I thought she was happy. I didn't really help aroud the house things of that nature I miss her so much I would do anything for this woman she is such a great soul and I knew that I just slacked I do anything to get her back
2006-11-08 03:04:12 · update #1
there was no cheating I do see her sometimes theres no crying we just hang out I know where I slacked with the helping around i just don't know why I slacked I love doing things for her I was just stupid we don't live together its been about 6-7 months I know people will tell me that if you love something let it go it will come back if its yours but I can't I can't let her go she is such a good soul when I said I would do anything to get her back I mean it if I let her go someone will find her and I might loose her forever I could never live with my self if I don't try my hardest Im 27 years old and I know that theres still a long path in front of me but I don't want to go down with out her I truly believe we where meant to be together I love her so much. Thank you for the real advice some of you have giving me thank from the heart.
2006-11-08 04:14:03 · update #2
Let her go and good riddance.
2006-11-08 02:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she left you and there was no cheating involved - be patient, understanding, and there for her. Offer to help out whenever possible (with things around the house, picking up kids, etc.). If there were certain behaviors on your part that forced her to leave (gambling, irresponsibility, insensitivity) get counseling and prove to her that you care enough about her to change your ways. Try to work out compromises that will be beneficial for both of you.
If you left and there was cheating - you had better start kissing booty big time. Go to counseling to try to find out why you did what you did. If either of you have filed for divorce/separation you can request mandatory marriage counseling for up to six months, in some cases. I would take advantage of this and learn to be the most attentive, LOYAL, and dedicated partner in the world. Start dressing snappier, smelling irresistable, and be as appealing (no whining or crying) as possible. Give her your undivided attention when you are together. Be sympathetic and helpful. Be strong - most women want a man who is strong, yet sensitive to their needs without being overbearing.
Without more details on what happened to the relationship that is all I can really offer.
2006-11-08 11:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by greyrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this depends on what went wrong in The relationship. was it her? was IT you? that's hard to answer not knowing details. but if she is set on it being over you have to let her go. i know that is a very painful thing to do. but you cant make someone stay with you. and if you could that wouldn't make things any better, good luck and keep us posted,
2006-11-08 11:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by natrich24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not given us any details, as to why your wife left. Did she do something wrong, or did you? We need more info here.
2006-11-08 10:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kidnap her. Since you provide no details about what you did it's tough to offer any real advice.
2006-11-08 10:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give us more details and maybe we can help..
2006-11-08 10:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Rain32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need more information
2006-11-08 11:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋