I was married once, now divorced, dated six time since the divorce, four of those left with other man because they didn't like to be treated like queens, and it was too much, two of them i left them because they were too psycho, i have look for the right and not too perfect girl, an all i see out there are girl full of lies.
2006-11-08 01:53:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your girl is out there. When you stop looking is when she'll find you. But watch out! You said you treat them like queens. You'll find a lot of gold diggers that way.
2006-11-08 01:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by driftinglust 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Where are looking that all you are finding is "Girls full of lies"? Are you looking past their physical beauty? You said that 4 of them left you for other guys. Can you figure out what might have caused that? Do you know who you are and what you want? If you are a casual country type of man don't go out to the latest hip-hop joint looking for someone. There might be an instant physical attraction, but most likely nothing substantial to hold the relationship together. Also if you're a homebody Ms. Social Butterfly would be a mistake. The opposites also apply here. As for me, I"ll never give up looking. A quitter never wins. The way I see it is if I quit looking than I'll have to live with the regret of "What If" when I am older. If I don't quit and don't find what I want at least I can say that "I Tried." If you would like more info e-mail me. Good Luck!
2006-11-08 02:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You don't NEED to be with someone. 2. Women are crazy beacuse you men **** on us. Insanity is sort of a self-preservation tactic to keep us from slitting your throat when you are sleeping!! Why are you looking for someone anyway. Just be independent and focus on bettering yourself, your finances and your career. Don't go to bars looking for Ms. Right... She's not there. She is at home, on yahoo answers or reading a book wondering the same thing... where is Mr. Right??
Personally, I would rather die alone then spend my life settling for someone who is only half of what you are looking for... You would never be happy and grow to resent them for it...
2006-11-08 02:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on the verge of dying? If not be patient and the right one will come along. As for the women not liking being treated as queens- I think, before all else, women want to be treated like queens sometimes but on a regular basis they just want to be treated like everyone else. If you're always "treating them like a queen" then they feel like they always have to be on their game and reciprocate. It gets tiresome.
2006-11-08 02:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking because even if you don't find HER, you'll be alone anyway. Who knows, she might be the next one. Try to have fun dating and not look at each girl as "the one" and it will just happen. Best of luck.
2006-11-08 02:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking and don't give up hope. I am in the same situation and know how you feel .I keep wondering if there are any normal men left on this earth . I hope you find that special girl and you will so good luck to you!
2006-11-08 01:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your just looking to hard! Sometimes we are just so blinded by the dating sceen. Step back and take it all in and look at things from a different point. Shes out there and she will come.. alot
2006-11-08 02:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by princesbubbleyum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is worth waiting for the right girl because somewhere, a girl is waiting for you to be her king. Try going out more and just talk. The girls wont come to you. You go to them. I did. Plus, you sound pretty low, and picky, but you have to open your arms and take a look at the bundle of girls you have. Dont go by fantasy.
2006-11-08 01:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Brevin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
AAAHHH You sound like a sweetie... Don't give up.. Sometimes it's hard to like to be treated like a queen if you haven't been treated like one before... So give those kind of girls time. They will get used to it...:)
2006-11-08 02:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Dreamer~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are having a really ruff go of it, sir. . .
All I can say that seems to hold true for any situation?
If you don't at least 'try' to create your own reality, then you shall be subject to accepting whatever the 'fates' create for you . . .
Best wishes, whichever way you choose to go.
2006-11-08 01:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋