we have now moved in together and it always occurs when he is asleep, though not on daily basis but i am so scared of if such that when it occurs i go out and come back when it is done. what do i do to gain courage of being there for him when this thing happens
2006-11-08 01:08:29 · 7 answers · asked by ntu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is such a sensitive question. I admire you for standing by your man in this way. It is the right thing to do. And I would get in touch with the national epilepsy foundation. I know there are resources and maybe even support groups for families or couples dealing with this issue. It is not that uncommon you know. I have actually helped someone when this happened to them. It is a little scary at first, but it is also such a loving time to be there for another human being when they obviously need you. Get some more info. Get into a network of support. I know you will be a great friend.
2006-11-08 01:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, it will take some time getting used to. my sisters husband is epileptic and thankfully it hardly ever occurs. apparently theres nothing you can do but wait for it to stop. if he has a good nights rest his epileptic seizures will occur less and less. Ask him about his tablets, and learn to recognize the symptoms. Usually epileptic patients know when his/her fit is about to occur. There is a tablet that they take during the fit that is placed under the epileptics tongue. Ask him about this pill and know where he keeps it so if he does have a major fit you will be there to help him take this pill.If his fit occurs more and more frequently visit the neurologist with him. Remind him to take his daily medication and to get enough sleep. Its the little things you do that count. Dont fret about it, soon you will learn to deal with it. Do more research on epilepsy and ask his neurologist for information. Good luck. Oh and the fact that you have chosen to live with him is enough evidence that you already there for him. I am sure he knows this and appreciates your courage.
2006-11-08 09:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by ar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, I'll weigh in. EpilepticMan here in the flesh. Your b/f needs to see a neurologist asap. My guess is that he already sees one, but needs an appt. to discuss where he's at right now in terms of still having seizures. He needs to be on some kind of med to control them. It may be a matter of adding to current meds (either med levels, or additional type of anti-seizure med). In any event, there are more options for your b/f & his Dr. now, than at any time in history, Some quite good, but none that work if he does not first go to the Dr. (neurologist), Share his (& your) concerns, & follow the Dr's advice (ie: take your meds as scheduled, easy on the alcohol, get plenty of rest / sleep, etc).
2006-11-08 09:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have pseudo-seizures... (partial seizures)... I lose partial control of body functions (the brain included).
It's in the family of epilepsy... just not full-blown like epilepsy... it's like the mind is heavily clouded.
Understanding epilepsy can help you to not be so afraid... it's like the brain is totally clouded... causing the person to have total loss of control, of body functions (the brain included).
Most epilepsy seizures end naturally, without emergency treatment.
The best thing you can do for him is just follow simple instructions>>>
Cushion his head, remove his glasses & loosen tight clothing (if he wears them), turn him on his side, don't put anything in his mouth, don't hold him down... & as the seizure ends, offer help in any way he might need it.
If at anytime, you think he needs emergency care... just call 911 & they'll help you.
If you keep an instruction list handy, you'll do ok, I'm sure.
2006-11-08 09:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. tell him your fears and concerns and offer to go to the doctor with him and ask the doctor things you are concerned about mostly with epileptics you just have to lay back and let them have the seizures but you shouldnt be leaving the room.. he could stop breathing and you may have to call 911 so stay with him he needs your support more than anything talk to him and find out what kind of epilepsy he has and what kind of medication he is on.. just be honest with him.
2006-11-08 12:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its no big deal. Just let it happen and when its over...a little water and peace. No problem at all hun. No reason to be scared.
2006-11-08 09:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get as much information you can about epilepsy. you know he needs you, try to always stay focus. it'll be hard but try the best you can.
2006-11-08 09:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋