I am not sure if this is a form of sleepwalking, but I frequently fondle my wife while I am completely asleep, sometimes going as far as having sex. A few times I have woke up in the middle of sex, but most of the time, I am completely out the whole time. This is not to say I am inactive. According to my wife, my eyes are open and I am quite active, getting on top almost every time. The funny thing is, I seem to have a lot more stamina when I am asleep. I even ejaculate in my sleep without ever waking up. I thought it would stop after a while, but we have been married for 8 years and it still happens. I certainly would like to be awake to enjoy sex with my wife, and I can't understand why this is happening to me. I imagine it is psychological, but I can't figure out the cause (although I should say that this has been happening since I was 17, soon after I lost my virginity). I have no other sleep disorders that I know of. Can anyone offer up some guesses to the cause?
2006-11-08 00:40:41 · 5 answers · asked by Big Blair 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
My husband used to do this. It was good sex, incidentally, from start to finish. Don't worry about your wife unless she's complaining. Give yourself permission to enjoy her! I suspect if you get tired enough when you're awake, you won't be playing in your sleep!
2006-11-08 01:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are referring to a phenomenon called sexosomnambulism. From what I understand this is not harmful, as long as you wife doesn't mind...mine doesn't, but, I don't have these episodes as often as I used to. You can discuss this with your doctor, He is sure to have some insight on this, and some suggestions for you. Good luck.
2006-11-08 00:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by boots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, as long as your wife is enjoying it, i think it would be okay. sucks that you don't enjoy it. Maybe you could instruct your wife not to have sex with you unless she knows for sure you are awake. or maybe try to only have sex in places besides your bedroom.
2006-11-08 00:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Just Gone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mmm, well. My hubby and I engage in sleep sex, but we usually wake up at some point, it's the greatest btw. We're dead tired, that's our excuse, but neither of us is really complaining..lol.
2006-11-08 00:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My its so horrible you jus black out...
2006-11-08 01:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by I am smart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋