i need help finding my point to life,
i just quite school, in two weeks i'm moving to a place where i dont know anyone, i just found out the man i loved for 3 years is cheating on me, the doc's say i might have cancer, my best friend isn't alowed to hang with me anymore cause her mum says i'm bad news and i can't remember the last time i smiled what should i do when it seems theres no point to life any more
2006-11-08 00:26:31 · 15 answers · asked by cille j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well when you hit rock bottom there is only one way to go after that. Up
2006-11-08 00:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First... take a breath. It sounds like things couldnt be worse. But as my dad has always told me, "Right when you things couldnt get worse.. THEY CAN!" First, count your blessings. You need to find the things that are RIGHT in your life. Take some time to think about them. As far as you BF, sounds like you are better off. It hurts, I know, but you deserve someone who respects you! I would count that in your positive list!!! Cancer? never good. You said the dr said you MIGHT .. MIGHT.. MIGHT.. not HAVE. Take that and file that back for later. IF they say you DO.. then worry. Your bff? Mothers say those things to protect their kids. What is going on in your life that would make her say that? Change those things. Moving to a place where you dont know anyone is a GREAT place to start on the NEW YOU! Find new friends, new hobbies, and a new focus. What do you want to be when you get older? When you decide.. then shoot for that!!!! Show that "mom" that you are a great person! Find out why you were with a man that cheated, look for someone NOT like him. Take care of your body.. you only get one! You cant return it for a newer model, and you cant get replacement parts.. so start taking charge of your life. You can be a great YOU if you try. Set some goals and work twords them!!! Good Luck!!
2006-11-08 08:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by WestWife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not, when I find that life is starting to get the best of me, I pull out a paper and start writing down everything that I have to be grateful for...I start thinking of less favorable things like being in war torn Iraq, or having to loose everything because of a flood and realize it's not so bad after all. I know it sounds silly, but it's true, there are always those worse off. Try the gratitude list....
2006-11-08 08:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go to a mental health proffecinal. Find out why "you are bad news" try to talk to her mom and explan that you are ok or change a few things that need to be changed, Since your boyfriend is cheating then it good you found out about it. It time to start you life again and this time make it better. As far a moving to a new place. Try to go to the gym and make friends. Go to do something that you like to do.
2006-11-08 08:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by jm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man!!! Pick yourself up off the floor and come back with a fight like no other! You are a beautiful human being. Lose all the other factors and trust in God. He will give you the strength you so need. The love and compassion is there so take it. Move on. You have friends and family that love you! Lean baby.
2006-11-08 08:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all can have trials in this life and we must do what we can in all given situations. It isn't what you can't do that needs focusing on but what it is that you CAN do that will make your life happier.
It may seem as if other's have better "luck" but it isn't as great as it appears. Everyone has things they are dealing with regardless of their situation.
I suggest you find a spiritual place for you to comfortably meditate within. I also suggest you begin an exersize program at a gym that you do on routine. Becoming healthy will assist your health and mental strength. I find that going to the gym daily helps me to be balanced.
Remember the true temple we have to honor God in is our bodies and we respect God by respecting ourselves.
2006-11-08 08:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by moire1111 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is always a point in life and everything happens for a reason dont you think you bein single moving to a new place now means something go there make something great with your life then go home and visit and make then see what they are missing everyone has a weak point and hard ones in life but we should be thankful look at the families over seas with there children now thats sad we have everything to be thankful for now chin up smile and u go girl!!
2006-11-08 08:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may seem to be no point to your current life but I would take the upcoming opportunity of moving to begin a new life. Take a different direction in your friends and choices.
2006-11-08 08:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look for the good things...
Important things first, get the cancer sorted, get some new friends, forget relationships and just have sex... ;)
2006-11-08 08:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the new place could be exactly what you need a fresh start learn from the mistakes you have made and move on
2006-11-08 08:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by whay i lost my ?s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋