the one you love but he/she don't love you or the one who loves you but you don't love him/her? i'm not love sick and i never even fell in love but my best friend always asks me this question over and over again. i just wanted to find an answer to make him stop. :p
2006-11-08 00:21:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
HEY I'M NOT IN LOVE. MY FRIEND IS THE ONE. I'M JUST TRYING TO FIND THE RIGHT ANSWERS TO HIS QUESTION TO MAKE HIM STOP.
2006-11-08 00:26:44 · update #1
Both suck. There's more pain if I loved someone who didn't love me. When it's the other way around, there are more feelings of guilt.
2006-11-08 00:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both are tough. I have experienced both within the last 6 years. I'd like to say that loving someone without being loved back was harder but, there was something about it that made me wish that it would never end. It almost became addictive- the pain, the hope, the lusting. I didn't know what to do when I made the decision to move on. I felt that the years previous were all in vain. I didn't have the one I loved. What made me realize how horrible I had made my life was when I fell for the most amazing person that I have known and I felt what love REALLY is. On the other hand, being loved by someone that you don't love back is probably easier. The key reason being that YOU are in control- not the other person as in the situation of being the one in love with a person that does not feel the same for you.
2006-11-08 09:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by iluvmynotebook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone doesn't have the same feelings for you as you have for them, then either way will not work. You can't make someone love you, and you wouldn't want to be with anyone who doesn't love you as much as you love them.
2006-11-08 08:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"It is better to have love and lost than to have never loved at all." Being heart-broken sucks but at least you have had that experience and know what love is. I'd rather have been heart-broken than never have know the feeling of love.
2006-11-08 08:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've experienced both, and they both hurt very bad, in different ways (for different reasons).
The next time your friend brings it up, say something like, "I've been thinking about that for a while . . . which heartache do YOU think would be easier to handle?"
2006-11-08 08:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion neither one,....your friend needs to find someone who feels the same way he does and you need to tell him you don't have the answer.....
2006-11-08 08:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by solsbj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋