We've been good friends for about a year and a few months now. However, it was only until half-way that I she begun getting snotty and annoying, but at times she's a really nice person to have around and have fun with. As the days passed by with her, they seemed to have lengthened and I begun to have these strong urges to strangle her. Of course, I won't resort to that, but I want to break our friendship. She's not the sort of person to back down easy and take the hint. She's the exact opposite, she'll just cling on tighter and harder when I ignore her calls or e-mails. However, it's not so simple ignoring seeing as we have to see each other for work everyday. So how can I break up with her in a way that will stop her constantly following me and hanging with me 24/7 but maintain a VERY casual friendship to enable us to work together? By the way- telling her in the nicest way possible is NOT going to help, she'll want to know the details and debate about it
2006-11-08 00:06:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find a new friend to hang out with and tell her you dont have time right now to do anything with her because you are so busy...that will at the least get you away and then maybe she will find someone else!
2006-11-08 00:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you said, that she is fun to be with but she gets a snotty attitude you don't want to be around her and you expect her to handle it like an adult and that you want to be casual friends. Sometime you have to be straight and to the point for people to understand. If she becomes a problem at work, tell whoever is in charge about the situation
2006-11-08 09:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by melbow35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not in sag, mi. but i think you should get another friend to hang with at work and make it a crowd ya kno twos company well anyway........ make it a person she may not really like and kind of hang with them all the time until she kind of does the same and eventually starts hangin with someone else or if you like her friendship just tell her she does not have to be so mean and tell her about herself in a nice but straight forward manner. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-11-08 08:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by sngozig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pic at her bad qualities,,become a nag,be real critical it drives people away..who ask if u were in sag,mi>> thats funny
everyone knows that flint and saginaw has no jobs except for selling crack
2006-11-08 08:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in no uncertain terms that yoiu want to part company.
2006-11-08 08:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, MAKE LIKE A TREE, AND LEAVE!!!
2006-11-08 08:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by jamesanderson22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋