I am jus wunderin whether the withdrwl method is any good for now as my b/f is allergic to jonnies as well as da sensitive1'z, we want to have a child soon but not jus yet I wuz wunderin wat r the chances of becomin pregnant frm the withdrawl method??
2006-11-07 23:00:58 · 8 answers · asked by ??????? 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Well, considering it only takes 1 drop and a little always comes out before he comes properly, what do you think?
2006-11-07 23:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honey, all in all withdrawl is a pretty poor form of birth control. At best they say the rate of pregnancies that occurr with this type of birth control are about 4% but often as high as 19%. It is an unsatisfactory method in that it does not allow the man to relax at all because he is constantly concentrating on withdrawing. It is usually not very good for the woman either as she is always wondering if he is going to be able to stop in time. Obviously it does not offer any protection from STD's. Its failure rate is higher if there is more than one act of intercourse, in this case there may be sperm in the prejaculate fluid.
You explain why your boyfriend can not use condoms ( tho I would still try different brands) but that does not explain why you could not be using something. Have you thought about the shot?, the pill? or even the sponge or an IUD. Any form of birth control that you choose would be better than what you doing now. It is only a matter of time before you are pregnant. The odds of getting pregnant without using anything are 0 to 20% so you are not really improving your odds by much.
I would go to a good clinic and get some advice before it is too late.
You sound like a responsible person and I hear that you are trying to do the right thing, you just need a bit of help. I hope that you will get it.
Love and Blessings
Lady T~
2006-11-08 07:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No definately not you best get yourself on the pill or you will be having that baby sooner than you want as sperm can still reach your overaries even though you are withdrwing as there is pre ejaculation all's it takes is 1 of them to reach and your pregnant If the comdom and pill are only 97 percent safe what chance do you think the withdrwal has definately less
2006-11-08 07:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by missletka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The withdrawl method doesnt work, men always ejaculate a little before they actually ***, and they dont feel this so they cant pull out or stop.
Its a myth that this works, so if you dont want kids, dont listen to him, you could go on the min-pill or find another form of contraception.
2006-11-08 07:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by carrienicholson23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would strongly advise against this method. Go to a doctor and get on Birth control for now. That would be the best...as long as you're not concerned about STDs.
2006-11-08 10:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely is not birth control!! If you don't want a baby find another way. There are non-latex condoms that your bf can use, or there are female condoms that may be worth trying. Birth control pills are good, they are very effective when taken properly and can be stopped anytime you decide you want to get pregnant.
2006-11-08 07:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by jenieatworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very high. You better be ready to get pregnant if you use that method. Try using some sort of spermicide to help. Although, even then, your still at high risk for getting pregnant.
2006-11-08 08:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by L80bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Withdrawal doesn't work because during orgasm isn't the only time that sperm is released. Better get on the pill.
2006-11-08 07:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋