my friend says he loves me . he is 5.6 n a bit darker than me. he is very decent in approaching. got a good slang in english. but i still don like him coz of his appearance. i like his attitude but some thing holds me back. should i love him. should i look for his appearance or his heart where he has love for me. he some how wants to convince me. im really confused.he works n he is 22. but im only 16 wil there b any problem in age. should i trust him
2006-11-07 22:58:47 · 12 answers · asked by natty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he saya he ll understand me n take care of me
2006-11-07 23:03:15 · update #1
pyar kiya nahi jata ho jata hai
so u have got ur answer i think ?
2006-11-07 23:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by navin g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you, but please think carefully before making a move. You shouldn't love a person you know you don't like in any way. Is he the one you've been looking for? Well, age doesn't matter. Your compatibility is what matters. But it's best to finish your studies before going into that kind of relationship. You might depend on the guy too much. One more, if you can't appreciate both inner and outer beauty, then it's best not to love him. You will be hard up in the future that way. You can trust him, as a friend of course. Don't force yourself to like both his inner and outer beauty. If you can't admire one part, then don't push yourself. You will end up hurting yourself more than hurting him.
2006-11-08 07:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by Silver Dragon 35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age isnt a problem .When i was 13 , i had a huge crush on a 21 year old guy. We went on 2 dates only . Appearance isnt everything . His true feelings for you is the most important . I think you should give him a chance.
2006-11-08 07:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Isabelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take things slow, go on a couple of friends dates, make your mind up then. If you really can't get over his appearance, let the bloke move on, and find someone who really floats your boat. Plenty of them out there.
2006-11-08 07:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by flumoxed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always follow both;
If you go out with him disliking his appearance, you'll end up resenting & avoiding being seen with him. It should be about attraction AND love; not one or the other.
'Nobody's perfect until you fall in love with them', Translation: If you're not attracted to him honey, you're not really in love.
gudluck
2006-11-08 07:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by barbarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should look at his heart and not the appearence,the feelings he has for u matter more.and dont just look at his feelings,think urself..do u love him or do u feel something for him..if u do then go ahead but if u dont,dont force urself into a relationship.best of luck.
2006-11-08 07:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force yourself to love someone, you either do or you dont. If you did, you would know. My advice is tell him you dont feel the same & would rather just be friends.
2006-11-08 07:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by listen_to_me!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby go for it, dont think so much, dont go by his apperance, go for his heart, and he loves , so age no bar, but for marriage u shud wait for ur age.
ok
2006-11-08 07:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can "let yourself" love or not love someone. You either get that feeling or you don't that's the way I've felt.
2006-11-08 07:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on looking.
2006-11-08 07:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by RJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋