My boyfriend keeps dreaming about me cheating on him with other blokes. I would never do a thing like that. I am 100% commited to our relationship. Why does he keep having these dreams?
2006-11-07 22:52:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, I'm not a professional dream-interpreter or anything like that, so probably my answer won't be the most accurate... But what it sounds like is your boyfriend having some trust issues of his own. Not saying he doesn't trust you, but maybe he just feels pressured by your friends or someone else to have to be a better guy to keep you?.. Dreams are basically the thoughts that bother you inside subconciously - is there anything to suggest to him or give him the idea that he's not good enough, or that you may be interested in another guy?
(He may also be in love with you so much that he's deathly afraid of losing you.. in that case it wouldn't be so bad :) )
I had a friend that went through something similar with her boyfriend, but they talked it over and everything turned out perfectly fine :) Good luck, sorry if this didn't help!!!
2006-11-07 23:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A repetitious dream like this is unusual. Usually dreams you have over and over again are a sign of stress of some sort, but for him to be continually dreaming of you cheating on him doesn't make sense.
Dreams are the place we work out things that happened in the daytime, the people and events simply represent something else. So if he's worried about his job for instance, maybe someone at work is getting credit for his ideas and he's using this dream to try to figure it out. Maybe he's simply insecure about something in his life and its creating this dream where he is cheated on.
Really if you want to know the truth, I think he's lying to you. I think he's trying to sabotage the relationship and is looking for an excuse to make you mad so you break it off. Look at his past history with relationships or simply look for other signs in your daily life that things are not as they seem. I don't believe he's having this dream at all, but is telling you he is for some reason. Find out what the reason is.
2006-11-07 23:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These may not be dreams at all, just his way to get you to open up and learn you better at the same time to open himself up to you if he knows girls like that stuff. Dreams normally come from current events in our lives and not that often repeated unless under extreme stress. If he is in fact having this recurring same dream of your cheating, he is struggling to go a step further in your relationship or his mind is trying to justify a way for him to leave it.
2006-11-07 22:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he really is having these dreams or do you think he is testing you? Is he cheating on you and having these dreams to justify what he is doing...ie turning the guilt on you?
Cheat: A dream of contrary. If you dreamed of being cheated, you can expect a stroke of luck: however if you were the cheater you can expect to be cheated
2006-11-07 22:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dark Goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably got a self-esteem issue and that comes through in his dreams. It's his problem, not yours. Don't make it yours. You might want to rethink your relationship with this guy, he may turn out to be trouble some day.
2006-11-07 22:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His anxiety and a sense of insecurity born out of his past experience could have triggered this kind of dreams. It could even be the expression of his low self-esteem and a sense of inadequacy, that comes to the fore.
2006-11-07 22:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just scared that his dreams may become reality so therefore he's thinking a lot about that scenario happening and now they've become a nightmare.He needs to stop obsessing that something bad will happen and concentrate on the relationship
2006-11-07 23:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by D8411 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is perhaps a latent homosexual. his dreams reveal his own unconscious desires to have sex with other men.he should enter therapy to help him resove these conflicts i wonder if you are somewhat masculine in appearance or extremely female. Either would fit.
2006-11-08 01:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by el cabo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are an exaggeration of our reality. He is insecure and jealous.
2006-11-07 22:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he dosent trust you or heis cheating and hence feels the same on you.
2006-11-07 22:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anil K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋