We meet and there was something between us, he admits that there is something we both felt it. We talked for hours and hours, nothing ever happening of course as we agreed to be just friends. Its so nice to talk to someone who has the same interests etc as you. There is only one problem now.. we talked about kissing (i know that quite amuzing - dont usually talk about it!!) we both want to so much.. there is just one thing i didnt yet mention he is married!!! Ha! i know what your all going to say - hes married and scum (maybe true) but the truth behind it all is that we are just friends, i didnt want anything else. But now oh hell its causing all kinds of questions for him.. does he love his wife anymore because he has feelings for me ? ? ? (this so sounds like a teen thing that even i would laugh at!)
2006-11-07 22:50:20 · 7 answers · asked by angel jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you don't love him, then leave him alone.
2006-11-07 23:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many people feel in a rut in their marriage at one time or another, maybe this guy is one of them, or maybe he is just bored and sees you as a flirtatous distraction from his mundane life, or maybe he really does like you and has fallen out of love with his wife it happens, but what you should remember is that any action you do will have a concequence if you kiss this man you are beetraying his wife aswell as him and causing heartache, are there children involved if so can you live with the thought you are going to cause trouble for their parents, personally i would just stay friends with this man and if it proves too hard walk away give him some time with out you and if after a certain amount of time that you both agree on he still feels the same and can't save his marriage then at least no one can give you a hard time for breaking a marriage up.
2006-11-08 06:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should agree to not have any contact for a few weeks.He is obviously confused & needs to sort his feelings out. If he really thinks that you are the one, he needs to leave his wife BEFORE you even think about kissing each other.
Just my opinion.
2006-11-08 06:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by listen_to_me!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even start with the kissing, cause you then will want to go further, you both are playing with fire and soon you both will be burnt!
2006-11-08 06:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are fine, just don't let them become real. Especially if kids are involved.
2006-11-08 08:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by helen g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, whoever said that luvers meant truley more than friends? =]
2006-11-08 06:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by hollypop5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A WARNING and hello !!!!!!! do not get into it
2006-11-08 06:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋