I am running out of ideas to keep the relationship alive with my girlfriend who has moved to another city. I am doing the following ..make calls, send sms, deliver flowers/ chocolates/ gifts. Is there anything creative way of keeping the magic alive.? or something that will keep her mind engaged, before I be with her physically. Thanks in advance for the answers.
2006-11-07 21:51:15 · 15 answers · asked by vivekrai_8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THEY NEVER WORK !!!
GOOD LUCK !!!
2006-11-07 21:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HI
i've been in a 6 yrs of long distance relationship, n now m married to the same guy. u r doing lots to keep the relationship alive. but one thing for sure, nothing can be compared to physical presence. so make sure u r always there with her on her birthday, and the anniversary of the day u first met. obviously it should be a surprise. n mind it nothing is impossible.this effort of urs will make her feel special, n u'll always hold that very special position in her life.
2006-11-07 22:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, I use to have a long distance relationship, and now we're married! Does she do things for you too? If not, ask her that you'd like her to. You can write her letters! Don't call her for a whole day or two! Then when she checks her mail she'll find your letter!! You could also take a local art class and make her something, pottery or an actual art piece for her to hang and/or display where she lives so she'll always be reminded of what she has! You could also make a trip to see her without her knowing and surprise her! GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-07 21:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by vetsmom_rgv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I promise you that if you try the "surprise visit", you will find her with some other dude when you get there. Women are like raccoons. They like shiney things. The first guy that drives by with his newly washed Mustang will have her pants down around her ankles in no time.
Long distance doesn't work. Even if you think it worked, she will have cheated on you repeatedly. Women are just horrible sex monkeys.
Don't ever get married to an American woman. You seem like the kind of guy who would get taken for everything you own. Stay hard. Stay independent. American women are selfish and useless. They only wnat the free ride and maybe a baby or two. They don't need you around for that when the divorce laws here mean you have to pay them for 18 years regardless.
2006-11-11 15:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by smokeskull 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are already doing a lot. But let me ask whether it is reciprocal or not.
Most importantly, you will have to keep the relationship alive and exciting by way of constant touch.
Apart from that...
What about a surprise personal visit?
2006-11-08 21:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard, my boyfriend and i only saw each other every 2/3 weeks for the first 6/7 months.it sounds like you are doing all the right things to let her know you still think about her all the time. just be sure to try and see each other whenever time permits, meet somewhere in the middle it the distance isn't too far. but above all else, trust is the most important. best of luck!
2006-11-07 23:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i don't believe in long distance relationships but that's me! Anyway if you want to keep your relationship going, i think the best that i can think of is to surprise her at her doorstep once in a blue moon. Don't let her know that you're going to visit her then suddenly pop at her doorstep. That would be really sweet! Or have u try cyber-sex with her? It's a form of foreplay that can keep her wanting you? Or phone sex?
2006-11-07 21:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in an LDR with a school guy. (i'm a senior) and wat looks to artwork for us is to txt by the day, now and again i am going to take pictures n mail him problematical copies of them. also i have despatched him letters contained in the mail purely so that is a wonder to him. yet another ingredient we've a tendency to do is video chat or plan a date to observe an similar movie mutually (purely to experience closer). you may also play a on line interest on like xbox or ps3 mutually and pay interest to each and each and every others voices by a headset. i desire this worlds for u n I favor u adult adult males a lengthy awesome courting! solid success!! :)
2016-11-28 22:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by matis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think with all these things its important in a long distance relationship to give that other perrson space, a time in which that person will miss u, and other thing is chatting with webcam on, wen u can c each other, all the best
2006-11-07 21:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by hmmm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is very difficult, sounds like you are doing all you can do from a distance. Good luck.>
2006-11-07 21:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E mail her everyday, send her love poems , and maintain the other things that you are doing daily. I'm sure she will not be able to forget you. Don't forget to say:"I love you".
2006-11-08 00:22:17 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋