i have been with my wife for six years.i noticed the problem two years ago.each day that passes the problem tends to worsen.we have one son whois ten months old.i would like to know if its a medical problem that can be caused medically.i will also be gratefull if i will know the type of drugs that will solve my problem.thanks.waiting for the answers to my problems
2006-11-07 21:11:42 · 6 answers · asked by anayo a 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
sometimes its the stress of having to care for the infant that causes her not to be aroused.
Try getting a relative/parents to take care of your kid while you and your wife go out for a date. Try flirting with her like the both of you are on your first date, nice dinner out, movies etc.. and have a suprise of soft music at home that you 2 could dance to.. thereafter, with foreplay ..
hopefully she will not take hours to arouse and that the both of you will have a more pleasurable time..
all the best!
2006-11-07 21:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women generally comes longer before men. It is a fact. Another reason maybe is that she is not in the mood. You may try the following:
Foreplay - if you are not into this yet. Do this to get her into the mood. The longer the better.
Exercise - this will help boost your lovemaking energy. The stronger you are the more love making positions you can do.
If the above does not work below maybe your last resort:
Medicine - take viagra or any drug that can help you with your erection.
2006-11-07 21:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you should probably talk to her about it and see what her deal is... try somethin new maybe she is bored... Women don't feel the same about sex as guys do. we always just want to do it where they usually want it to mean something and have some feeling to it. As far as drugs, well alcohol usually does the trick.
2006-11-07 21:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Casey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has post natal depression
be a better friend to her right now
cook together and talk a lot
2006-11-07 21:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess its because of her hormones going back to normal, im sure it will just take time.
2006-11-07 21:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by happybeanstalk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go down on her and it'll be fine
2006-11-07 21:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by Magnetic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋