Tell me what are feelings for him, have you forgotten him, or do you stillhave the same feelings that you had once long ago.
Will you stay friends with him.
2006-11-07 19:04:33 · 18 answers · asked by Debby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would not have feelings for him any more ,even if i did feel for him ,I would ignore them ,I am sure he will hurt me again after meeting someone new .
2006-11-07 19:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!...that is happening to me now...just a few years shy of a decade. I'm still attracted to him ....but I don't feel the same emotionally.....he really did a number on me ....we went together seeing each other everyday and without a clue ....when I thought he was honest when he said he was happy and loved me ...he made me feel nothing or nobody could touch us....and out of the blue after running into a girl he didn't go with but did know her and just like that he was able to turn his back and not even speak to me ....not a word .....just as easy and fast as that....he is extremely sorry for it now ...and wants to go back to where we were ...but I could never trust him again...he was brutal ...and cold as ice and i know no matter how sorry he is ....if he did it once he could do it again...maybe he has learned a lesson but I could never possibly know for sure....and yes I socialize some with him ..but friends ..not ...in my book.... you can trust a real friend ......he is not my friend......but I enjoy his company when he is not trying to get me to come back to him....i hope I answered your questions ..
Peace
2006-11-07 19:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by KorvetteKaren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This I think is iffy:
--Has he matured/grown any in the past 10 yrs.? A little or a lot?
--How old was he when he left you? (and re-think this in terms of the above question).
--When he broke up with you, how well/badly did he handle it?
--How have YOU grown/matured in the past 10 yrs.?
--What do either of you want/expect at this point in your lives? Friendship or to get back together?
--How much in love were you with him when he broke up with you?
--How angry and/or hurt do you still feel when you see him/talk to him now?
A lot depends I think on you searching your soul. This is such an individualized situation, it would be hard for anyone else to answer these questions successfully or definitively for YOU.
Good luck.
2006-11-07 19:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy came back then yes of course i will still have feelings for him, but not the kind of feeling i felt before. I would never forgive him but i will still be friends with him because i want him to feel the regrets after what he's done to me. And then i can let it all go happily!
2006-11-07 19:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Element 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 06:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read it back to yourself cos to me that sounds crazy if you remain friends with a bloke that does that to you. If it were me I would instantly forget him and move on. No point being in love with someone that doesn't feel the same way.
2006-11-07 19:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont have the same feelings, dont think you can pick up where you left it.
If you can be friends depends how you going on, You both developed (maybe in different direction)
Whatever you do, dont let him hurt you again
2006-11-07 19:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Starlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never go back! a man I thought I loved a long time ago (who cheated on me) tried coming back but I saw him for the vile person he really was and now I don't even think I did love him-I was just young and foolish x
2006-11-07 19:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can come back as friend..But not his girlfriend..Because there is something called dignity..which i care for more than anything else..IF that guy was inlove with me he wouldnt have left me for any reason whatsoever
2006-11-08 02:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two ways of looking at it
1- Fate is shoveling sh!t in your face or
2- It's destiny calling your name
You choose
2006-11-07 19:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by SiZZLoRR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋