where can i find forums for infertile couples looking for surrogates?

Answer 1

are you looking for a surrogate? please consider the needs of the future child. let me leave with you something a friend told me:

Surrogacy is NEVER in the best interests of the person who is created in these circumstances.

How can it be anything other than damaging for a newborn baby to be separated after birth from the only person it knows..it's mother?!? Nature does not intend that a child be taken from its mother within minutes, hours, days or weeks of its birth. This is the critical time of "bonding"; the very foundation-stone of physical and emotional wellbeing in the life of the human child.

Sometimes, through death, abandonment (or adoption)....a child loses its mother. Hopefully its father is able to protect and nurture it...with support from family and friends. A newborn child, (whose mother has died or disappeared), is vulnerable and grieving for its profound loss. I would recommend that you read Nancy Verrier's work "The Primal Wound" for a deeper understanding of the effects of separation on mother and baby.

It is becoming increasingly acceptable to "create" a child through IVF surrogacy arrangements. This requires two women to contribute/participate in the child's conception through ova donation and gestational surrogacy. Perhaps people who embark on this process believe that a child will not experience loss because neither the genetic nor gestational mother are
"wholly" connected to the child. I think that a child created in these circumstances will feel a very deep sense of loss that it does not have a "whole" mother in its life.

Do read Nancy Verrier......she will illuminate your way as you ponder these profoundly important issues

Answer 2

Here is a link to a service that can help you find a surrogate, beware however i found it...never used it make sure to read terms & conditions of there service. Good LucK

Answer 3

Any teaching hospital, will put you on the list of Donner or in case of your wife on receiver.

Go on Internet to find a Hospital near you.

Answer 4

I know that's not an answer to your question but consider adoption. I adopted a baby girl and now I cannot live without her. May be you want to explore it too.

Answer 5

Check with your local hospital, they should be able to guide you in the right direction.

Answer 6

i think you have to find your own i asked that question one before wanting to know cost and so on

Answer 7

in the love parks