why do i get tired of girls so fast....why am i no longer attracted to my gf?

Answer 1

Because your addict to the chase! Once you have a new toy and you know it's yours. The excitement is gone. Your off to find another one.

Answer 2

Hmmm? Is it that you are tired of girls as a whole or are you just tired of your girlfriend? You have to take into consideration the who meaing "getting tired" since it implies that you no longer show interest.

With that being said it doesn't necessarily mean that you are gay. It could just mean you are tired of the same old thing and might need a change or something to spice up your relationship a little bit. If it is the other reason then ask yourself how long have you felt attracted to the same sex? If you feel the spark is gone from your relationship with your gf and women altogether then I suggest exploring around a bit but make sure you make the right choice. If attracted to the same sex then be prepared for all the craziness that associates itself with it. It will effect you, your life, and others around you.

My suggestion is that you speak with your girlfriend and see if you can jazz the relationship up before you start venturing out. All in all I wish you the best of luck and I hope you find an answer. Happy trails.

Answer 3

I assume you're a girl yourself....

The answer to your question is because "she and you are too alike"....

Whilst people are attracted to others who are similar to themselves (known as homiphily), the process of similarity is not what drives attraction - or otherwise the entire human race would be homosexual!!

It would appear that there needs to be a certain level of anti-homiphily for relationships to survive. Differences would appear to be the "spice" and "challenge" of relationships. Heterosexual couples automatically have antihomiphily built in, as males and females are biologically and psychologically different. Homosexual couples usually have to "invent" their own ways around this problem; usually by going for a different age group, race, or a person who has different physical and/or psychological characteristics to their own.

So, essentially, homosexual relationships aren't carbon copies of heterosexual ones. It doesn't mean theres anything wrong with homosexuality.

Answer 4

it's because you're nailing them too fast. Wait like a year, and then nail them. And nail them only like once a year, I bet you'll love her, or at least her body, for a looooong time. That's what married people do.

Answer 5

Try to be more open with your dating choices..sometimes we have patterns that are difficult to break out of, and your pattern might be chosing similar girls..expand. Try dating a girl you wouldn't have chosen before.

Answer 6

Why are you having so many relationships that this can even be an issue? Slow down and form a real connection with someone.

Answer 7

Is there a pattern based on which you choose your girlfirends?
Just goodlooking? And... available?

Maybe you have to redefine your preferences in girls - don't be superficial.

Answer 8

maybe you don't like girls deep down and should start trying to see if you can find some one of the other sex to keep your fire burning, or maybe you just havent found the right one.

Answer 9

*Chuckles* Because men are programmed to spread their seed around to as many different females as possible. Women are genetically programmed to only have one mate- so that male mate will stay around to raise the kids.

Once you get to the age of around 27ish to 30, you'll probably find one woman, and settle down. Give it time

Answer 10

Coz you're in it for the conquest. Or you could just be searching for the right one.