Well? Yeah or nope?

Question

This girl I like got invited to my mates party through another mate and she doesnt want to go because she feels its rude. So I said she can come to mine...thing is I wasn't planning on doing anything. I told her i wasn't doing anything but she insisted that I should...Lately shes been acting strange...like on Sunday at our Youth Group she just staired at me blankly for ages, I just looked back, then she text me asking if I was ok...Odd. Im so desperate to ask her out, or ask her over to my house sometime, but im afraid shes going to say no...Its also exam time and she said she doesnt want to distract me from my work (but she does, because I can think of only one thing, HER). What can I do?

I want her, my mate even said she liked me...but hes almost always telling lies. but they are real good mates him and her and they talk about everything so Im unsure.

Give me a sign. Not just "She likes you! go for it!" but something I might understand.

Note: Im very shy, mainly with her

Answer 1

You should give yourself some credit - she text messaged you, asking if you were okay. It may have seemed odd, but apparently she noticed something about your behavior and was concerned. At least the ice is broken and the line of communication is open - that's usually the hardest step and you've already figured it out.

If your buddy said she liked you, her actions will confirm or deny that and it seems there might be a little "liking" there. So, just thinking about her all the time will be the ultimate distraction unless you do something about it...something casual. Just strike up conversation with her. You both have sometihng in common that can be a starter conversation: Youth Group.

Although you are shy, asking a question about something that happened in the group is a good way to get things going. Ask a question that requires more than a "yes" or "no" reply; don't ask something like, "Did you like group last night?" :) You could even ask about the latest movie, if she'd seen it and if she hadn't, what a way to ask if she'd like to go with you - you could see it together.

A lot of times, girls are interested but are trying to see if the guy is interested. A little conversation goes a long way.

Answer 2

If you like this girl then you need to just put it out there I mean obviously you've got it bad if shes all you think about! If you don't step up to the plate and say something your never gonna know if your Friend is lieing or not. The fact that she stares at you that says alot I mean I'm a woman and I don't just look at someone for shits and giggles If I'm staring then I'm either trying to figure them out or I'm interested in them.Chances are shes doing it for both reasons cause she likes you and shes trying to figure out if you like her back Girls don't tell you they don't wanna distract you from your studies if they don't care at all. I mean yeah that could be a ez brush off but most likely its not. Ask her over to study with you that way its doesn't look like a date but if she excepts it will give you an indication if she likes you or not. Ask her out dear its about all you can do either that or sit and be shy and watch some other guy end up with YOUR girl!!

Answer 3

You have to say something to her in order to know that answer. Most of us like when men do the first move. I'm not telling you that she's into you, although she may be, but you can't accomplish anything in life without taking risks. So I say go ask her out, go to the movies or someplace where you get to know her better and see how's she is acting around you. You'll never know until you know.

Good Luck and don't worry about your shyness. Be yourself...always.

Answer 4

it sounds like she is just as shy as you are, you will just have to talk to her, and find out for yourself