Should I feel bad?

Question

I feel bad, because I liked this guy a while ago, but he made me nervous because he came on REALLY strong, and I never had a guy, who wasnt a complete perv, come on that strong before. So I didnt know what to do. I talked to him and stuff, but I got nevervous and I feel like my nervousness eventually pushed him away. He hasnt talked to me in a while, since we havent had a class with eachother this year, but now randomly today, after countless days that he saw me in the hall he said hello.

Should I feel bad? I dont like him anymore. He hangs out with people who I dont like. They smoke and drink, and act really stupid. He didnt seem like he did that type of thing. But he apparently does. (I've seen a picture of him smoking)

He's a nice guy, and I said hello back, but should I feel bad. I feel like I really hurt his feelings by not tottally falling all over him when he used to talk to me alot.

Should I?

Answer 1

huh? you have the right to pick and choose who you fall over. You don't like someone because they like you.

Answer 2

No, you can only be yourself and if you felt nervous you have every right to act on those feelings.And for a good reason now you see his true personality and his friends. Things that you are uncomfortable with.

Answer 3

You could afford to be a little less judgemental and more friendly, but I don't believe in falling over anyone.

Answer 4

Uh, NO. Please, why do you need to stroke his ego? He made you feel uncomfortable. Trust your gut and be careful. Men can be real bad liars to get a girl. You really need to be stronger for yourself.

Answer 5

Re-read the second sentence of your second paragraph and you will have your answer.

Answer 6

No