I am 32 years old married for 5 years I have been trying to get pregnant for the past 5 years, last month I went to an infertility doctor to check for any problems, but the doctor said everything was fine but she would like me to start infertility work which will cost $ 10,000 I only have $5000. Iam very frustraded now that I can get help but I don't have the money, life isn't fair I cry almost everyday thinking maybe I'll never have a chance to become a mother.
2006-11-07 15:22:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
things will happen.. maybe god is just trying to protect you from a bad pregnancy. so you wont get hurt. the same thing happend to my cousin and once she got pregnent her first time she had a miscarriage but she tried again and now she has 2 twin baby boys who are almost 3 and is now expecting another baby in december. keep your hopes up things will happen for you.
2006-11-07 15:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had problems myself. One, don't try so hard, occupy yourself with other things to get your mind off of conceiving. Just enjoy the sex for what it is, pleasure. Otherwise it becomes a chore and something to be done only because it has to. Also, has your husband been checked to make sure that his sperm is ok? There is a chance as well that the fluid inside you is to acidic for your husband's sperm which will kill it off before it even has a chance to fertilize anything. That can be checked by having sex and having your doc take a sample from you within an hour to see if this is happening. If all this is ok, have you tried fertility pills? Are your hormone levels ok? If they're off, sometimes that makes it pretty much impossible to conceive. There are alot of avenues to look at before going to the expense you are talking about. Don't give up just yet.
2006-11-07 15:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by cookiefactory4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Patients is a vertue. My sister went through the same thing kind of, well she was on the depo shot and they told her that the shot had messed up her ovulation, and she would never be able to concieve. So she pretty much gave up, but here's where it gets good she gave her fiance a gift for his birthday, IT WAS A PRENANCY TEST, she had lost all hope and yet became pregnant when she leased expected it. God works in misterious was, it will happen when the time is right. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-07 15:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your insurance company, my sister in law was able to get hers to split the expences for a added monthly cost of about 20 dollars which is alot cheaper than 5,000
2006-11-07 15:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Furryscott" is right: adopt.
You'll be pregnant within two years, guaranteed.
2006-11-07 15:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy solution.....ADOPT!
2006-11-07 15:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋