there's this boy at school that I like, but cause of that two of my friends got mad at me. Its really hard to explain, but this is how it is:
My two friends liked him and one of his friends, but mostly his friend. They really didn't seem to care about the one I like and made fun of him sometimes. After a month they were over him and just talked about his friend, but when they found out that I liked him (by stealing some notes) they got all mad at me. They stoped talking to me and I think they told the boy that I liked him. Since they were 2 of my bestest friends I just told them I didnt really like him and was just playing around. As soon as we were friends again I asked them if they were that into him, and they said not really that they liked this other dude better. Everything is just kind of ****** up, I dont get them. How come they got so mad at me if they didnt like him that much and why weren't they mad at each other, if both of them liked him too?
2006-11-07 14:27:47 · 10 answers · asked by La_Shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Real friends don't make fun of you or the person you like. Find new friends or tell these friends to except you & your friend that is a guy. Be true to yourself & you will find that the people around you are of a better quality!
2006-11-07 14:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have this problem you must be young so watching what you type might help!!!
Friends will always be there (what a load of crap.) Boys are always going to be important to you. Do you have more friends if so forget the girls who are jealous. I am now married to a man that was my best friends boy friend (in high school) We've been married 10 years. Thats much better than 2 friends who don't respect me enough to consider my feelings and also be honest with them.
2006-11-07 14:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by caecd5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I call the friendship deal my mate and i did this a lot at school and during our teenage years .He would find someone he really liked and I would petend to like her friend sometimes I did one I hated but for my best friend i went along with it thank goodness when these things happen they dont last long .Your main mistake was not telling the boy of your liking him at first .We never set out to hurt anyone and never did I would always keep my agreement with my friend and try to be nice to her girlfriend when he left one so would I noone ever got hurt like you talk about these girls are nasty look for new friends.
2006-11-07 14:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only guess is that you had feelings
you kept in secret from them, surprising them.
How can yoiu be sure they really don't like him,
despite what they say. They invaded your privacy
to find what your notes were saying.
In the end, you are a girl and you have the right
to change your mind and tell them you like the guy.
Tell them you got to thinking about it, and you do like him.
Let them tell him again.
2006-11-07 14:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are mad at you because they dont want him but you suppose to be there friend,they dont want you to have him, either. so there are 1 are 2 things that can happen here 1 .you can say the hell with what they think and date him and find new friends are you can let them think they control who you like as long as its not anyone the 2 of them like..see the girls was your friend as long as they knew you didn,t like him but as soon as they found out you liked him, they was mad.why ?they dont want him the fact is they dont want you to have him.
2006-11-07 14:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to. issues take place. She's apologizing and it particularly is going to be a terrible subject in case you save making her make an apology. a minimum of you already know what type of boyfriend you have. yet think of being in her footwear. Dont permit something are available between an enduring friendship
2016-10-03 09:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is a hard question! that is ****** up! they are either jealous of something.... or they are not very good friends. that is all i can give ya. i will get back to you if i think of something else.
2006-11-07 14:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody knows that relationships change all the time, I'd be happy for you if this was the only problem you had to deal with. it's alot smaller and it doesn't suck as much as being homeless, or something
2006-11-07 14:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by lumin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough luck kid. you need new nice friends. remember friends are someone who care about you, real friends would care who you like, sure they probably will give some input but that's your business! ... good luck with your "friends"
2006-11-07 14:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you talk to the guy and see if he likes you . if he does then date him and to hell with your snootey friends. you don't need friends like them anyway. no one does.
2006-11-07 14:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋