WEll alright there is this boy that i like, but my best friend fated him like over a year ago and their relationship ended. Since then she has had 2 boyfriends. But the other day she told me that she still might like this kid after i had told her that i like him. And i know that he wants to ask me out but i don't know if i should say yes since i like him, but then i don't know if i should say no since she is my best friend and i don't want to hurt her. Any ideas?
2006-11-07 13:57:53 · 8 answers · asked by manda 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
DONT DONT DONT. If your friend likes him, and he's her ex then dont do it. Chicks over *****. You wouldnt want her to do that to you would you? and dont say you dont care because any girl would
2006-11-07 14:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you, and wants to ask you out, and you say no, how is that gonna make him like your best friend? If he has feelings for her, then he would have wanted a relationship with her. whether you say no or yes, isn't going to change his feelings for her. So i think you should say yes.
But out of curiousity, was it she or he that ended the relationship? if it was him, then he probably isnt' into her anyways, and if you say no, he'll probably ask another girl.
2006-11-07 22:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by navdeepkaur 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boys will come and boys will go.....communication is key....if everything is out in the open, then your friend can't be upset. It all depends on how she feels about you and the boy going out. Ask her and see what she tells you....DO NOT hide it from her that is a really bad thing to do and there will be no good out of it....just talk to her...
2006-11-07 23:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by mon liz ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember boys are gonna come and go, but if shes a true friend, and you treat her with respect, then she'll be around for a lifetime. Good luck
2006-11-08 08:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by ~Jen~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 and I know about this stuff. We always have had one rule:Don't ever date each others ex-boyfriends. I just think its wrong, especially if she still likes him. Never let a guy come b/t you and a friend. It is also kind of gross and it is awkward.
2006-11-07 22:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend should understand you like this person and you should say yes there only one chance at really like someone and this is it your friend has had many boyfriends and should understand how you feel if she gets angry about it than she is not really your friend . just go for it
2006-11-07 22:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by lestat_rath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you 2 should decide to either both stay away from him, like I mean he's off limits to both of you, or he's fair game, and both of you are free to go after him and whoever gets him, gets him and that's it.
It has to be 1 or the other.
So sit her down and tell her "I like him, and I think he likes me, but I know he's your ex, and you've mentioned maybe still liking him; so I think we should agree to either both of us not dating him, or both of us being allowed to go after him with no hard feelings if he picks me and not you or vice versa"
2006-11-07 22:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it ask her if it's okay..this is kinda stupid but i goot it off a tee-shirt..."friends are forever...boys are whatever!"
2006-11-08 18:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by I love you :) I think :/ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋