I am about to go crazy i'm really stressing over this? ;(?

Question

had sex on june 1st 2nd and 3rd had my last period june 13th had sex with somebody else close to the end of june 2 weeks ago my doctor said i was 18 weeks and 4 days but when i had an ultrasound it said 19 weeks and 5 days so hes been off i'm almost 21 weeks now i'm futher along then what my doctor told me so that would make it guy #1 right? please no rude comments i have posted this like 3 times already i know but i'm going crazy over this

Answer 1

If you don't know, how do you expect us to know? You will have to wait and have a test after the child is born.

Answer 2

I conceived on June 17th and I'm currently 23 weeks. So if you are 21 weeks along you would have conceived the end of June. So, I'm thinking guy #2. If it had been guy #1 then you'd be a few weeks ahead of me. You'd already be in your third trimester. You'd be farther along than 21 weeks.

Try not to stress too much. I know this situation must suck for you. I think it would drive me crazy too. But for now just cocentrate on the health of the baby. You don't need stress right now. I'd wait until the baby is here to worry about the rest. But from what you've said I'm fairly certain we're looking at guy #2--the one you were with at the end of June.

Answer 3

Sometimes the baby is in a womb a longer or shorter period of time then the 9 months. And sometimes a baby grows faster in the beginning then other babies. Your trying to guess it by two weeks, and that is about the time frame they use to average out how old the baby is.

It's also hard to tell because what you suspected as your period might have been implantation bleeding. So really the baby could be either of the two guys. Sorry, but the best way to know is to do a DNA test.

If it's a choice between deciding which guy you want to keep. you have a tough decision ahead of you. It's about 50/50.

Answer 4

Let me just tell you something Doctors are never 100 percent right. It does suck but keep tabs on them men and wait till your baby is born for a test (dont do it until then it is dangerous with your baby not born) That is the only way. Dont stress. Cause no matter what you do it isnt going to change who the babies dad is. That is already made. GET THEIR WHOLE NAMES. That is the best I can say. If all else go to some other doctor who is more sure.

Answer 5

you're literally not likely loopy- those recommendations sound completely well-known. I also doubt your bipolar both, on condition that bipolar is a serious, existence-impacting affliction that extremely purely looks in adulthood (21+ study has shown), and may not be clinically determined in youthful people. once you're prepared to operate in society and characteristic a boyfriend, i do not get why you're labeling your self as sick or loopy. You sound like a everyday, functioning youngster with a boyfriend and well-known youngster recommendations. you do not look mentally sick and also you're literally not loopy.

Answer 6

I hate to tell you this but unless you knew EXACTLY what day you ovulated there really isn't know way to tell without a paternity test when the baby is born. I feel really bad for you, I couldn't imagine. I hope everything works out for you but no matter what answers you get here you won't really know until you get that blood test. Best of Luck to you.

Answer 7

It is most likely the 2nd guy. Count the weeks to the second guy and see how long that would make it. And you would need to have a paternity test done and that way you will know.

Answer 8

go to http://www.intmed.mcw.edu/clincalc/pregnancy.html
guy # 2 is the father
I guarantee it
think of me as you vodoo woman
relax you are making your self sick
guy #1 have no chance ok
you can tell #2 without ever mention that their was a #1

Answer 9

I would say guy number one... but only a paternity test will give you the answers you need.

Answer 10

Definantly sounds like it would belong to the 1st guy by the timing.