I am 15 and found out im pregnant...i live wit my bro not my parents....me and my bf decided to keep it btwn us for now...wut is the next step after u find out ur pregnant?
2006-11-07 13:37:36 · 13 answers · asked by Krislyn S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go to the doctor and then decide what you are going to do. Adoption, Keep It, etc. and then probably talk to someone, a friend or a counselor. You'll want to probably talk to someone besides your boyfriend, especially if you have any fears.
2006-11-07 13:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to make an oppointment w/ an obgyn if you havent already. You take care of yourself no alcohol or drugs. Eat good because what you eat is where the baby gets it nutrients. Go to all your doctors appointments so that you know the baby is fine. If you both decide that when you have the baby your not ready to be parents there are adoption agencies w/ lots of caring couples who would love to adopt. You are so young a baby is a big responsibility and if you both decide to keep the baby you need jobs money to pay bills,buy food, diapers,formula all that stuff. I just hoped that you havent dropped out of school.
2006-11-07 13:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what state you live in, but some states require you to tell your parents. First and foremost, you need to decide pretty soon what you are going to do about the pregnancy (keep, adopt out, abort). You need to see a doctor as soon as you can to make sure you have a healthy pregnancy. Honestly think to yourself if your b/f is going to be with you "forever", most likely not. I hate to be a bearer of that kind of news, but most of the time, at your age, things do not work out, especially with a baby. I have 4 kids myself and know that it is very hard and expensive. Please think long and hard about your decision...you can talk about it with your guy, but the ultimate decision is YOURS alone. I could say so much more but will leave you with that. Good luck to you!
2006-11-07 13:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, is ur bro nice? u should tell ur parents, or someone u can trust and they will help u, if u still want 2 keep it 'btwn' u and ur bf, then try going on the internet 4 help
2006-11-07 13:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tim M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your brother. He can help you find a doctor. Have you decided if your keeping the baby or not? If you are be sure you will be able to provide for it and keep it healthy. If not keep the pregnancy but consider adoption. Adoption isnt as bad as it appears to be, plus the family will be able to eaisly to provide for him or her.
2006-11-07 13:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by mely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the dr.first thing. Make sure you and your boyfriend have jobs. Get health insurance. Being so young and most likely lower income, go to human services and apply for medicaid,and to the health department to sign up for wic
2006-11-07 13:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your family. They need to know about it. Aftre that you should think about what to do. Abortion could hurt you and your BF's lives forever. For now you should just think about what to do with the child.
2006-11-07 13:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Crouton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DIE INSIDE
OR ASK YOURSELF "DO I WANT THE BABY OR NOT?"
IF NOT--- "WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH THE BABY?"
"IF THIS BABY IS BORN, HOW WILL THE REST OF MY LIFE TURN OUT"
"IS MY BOYFRIEND READY AND WILLING TO BE A MAN AND HELP ME TAKE CARE OF THIS CHILD??"
"DID I EVER WANT TO GRADUATE FROM HIGH SCHOOL OR MOVE ON TO COLLEGE? IF SO, HOW WILL HAVING THIS BABY AFFECT ME IN DOING THAT?"
2006-11-07 13:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you TELL your family, if you're keeping it. If not, you might want to keep things to yourself. Until you have your feelings about the pregnancy straight.
2006-11-07 13:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting an appointment with a doctor for prenatal care.
2006-11-07 13:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋