I unno I don't know who I am I can't seem to find my self so many changes in my life, can't get a grip on life so many misfourtions so much pain in my life, and sometimes I no longer want to live I say "greeving is nolonger important forget it" sometimes I really wonder what the hell am I doin' who am I, and what am I here for? I'm good at singing my sisters make fun of me when I sing but when I sing to other people out side of my house they say I sing good and i'm like really but as soon as I go home they shoot down me and my self esteam I feel so emotionally weak and discusted for being emotionally weak, I unno what to believe anymore.. I don't even know who I am, my name is just a label...who the hell am I???????
2006-11-07 13:16:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You sound young. I have been in a similar position before. You are going through a lot of changes in your life right now, and it is very hard. How i got through the earlier years was writing in my journal. Writing down my thoughts, and what i feel is important. My likes and dislikes, my feeling about things, and people. Maybe that will help for you. Just keep singing, family members can be the hardest people on you. You are not emotionally weak, you are probably just wore out from them. Let them know how they make you feel. Don't worry, you will know 'who you are' soon enough. And that first guy is an asshole who doesn't know you, just ignore him.
2006-11-07 13:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world, where fantasy and reality collide. Some handle it well. Others not so well. You are in the latter catagory.
BELIEVE me when I tell you, your difficulties seem huge to you, and you feel badly about why you feel badly. Look! we all have our problems. We have all felt the way you do at one time or another, especially if you are a teenager. Your world is small yet, and that world seems yucked up in a major way. You have to try to move beyond your own self pity. Self esteem is acquired through facing your fears, and accomplishing goals, no matter how small. Just going outside and picking up some litter is a goal. A small one, but a goal completed nevertheless. Do not rely on the opinions of others to gain the confidence you need. If you wanna sing....SING! You will discover 'who you are' in time. Be patient with yourself. Try to stand back and see if your troubles are 'in the now' or are they in the past? We cannot do anything about the past. Regret is a waste of time and energy. Hang around people with good attitudes, especially the survivors of life changing events. The have survived, and so will you. Surround yourself with people who take you as you are, and don't judge. Hang with positive friends, stay away from the negatives who will only bring you down even further. You need the spark of life. Get a hobby. If it's singing. think about singing lessons. Buy a guitar. Teach yourself to play. BUt whatever you do, DO SOMETHING YOU ENJOY even if you have to force yourself to do it at this point.
2006-11-07 21:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by The Oldest Man In The World 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at a point in your life when you have the opportunity to decide who you want to be.
It can be very difficult when you are being treated badly at home. Maybe you could try writing down the good things people say to you, so you can keep them in your mind. That might help you ignore your family when they give you a hard time.
2006-11-07 21:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have often felt this and often i still do thus i try to hunt down the answers in life but am usually unsuccessful i still believe that if you wait patiently you will get an answer try and ask someone you think you can trust and tell him/her what is going on
2006-11-07 21:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by colliflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you are really depresed and no mater what happens in your life it WILL GET BETTER just dont do drug to escape the pain .
also you may want to talk to anyone about any little thing that comes to your mind you know just to talk just be carful who you talk to about certain things, you know the ones who cant keep secrets. hang out whit your friends. or make some new friends . and dont worry about your sisters they might too young to be able to be thrutfull or encouraging or they are just teasing you.
2006-11-07 21:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by rain fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're depressed, maybe you could arrange to see a psycologist? I would recommend a psycologist over a psychiatrist, though it is up to you. And you could talk to your family about how they're hurting you -- maybe they don't even realize they are.
2006-11-07 21:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by [[happymedium]] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont know who you are then how you expect other to know you.sounds like you need some help seek the mental health they will help you find out who you are.believe me,things will get better dont give up.
2006-11-07 21:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should go to a doctor...it seems you may be depressed. You don't have to feel like this.
2006-11-07 21:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to express your feelings to your family...im sure if they KNEW how you are feeling they will adjust their comments towards you...
2006-11-07 21:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by Angelwings87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a person only you can truly figure this question out.
2006-11-07 21:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by sock_rocker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋