Hi, when do brothers and sisters realize there different, I mean down there ,sexually wise?

Question

as growing up with two brothers and taking baths with them , and seeing each others bodies , in all stages of shapes, when do we know when the others change and grows up. i mean when do the boys know they are now different down there. do some take longer than others to realize? because my brothers still think its just ussual and nothing is different, they ar 14 and 16 and me as 15. Thanks

nothing has happened, i am just asking at what age do they realize. they are different? Thats all!

Answer 1

girls and boys know they're different around the age of 5 or 6. that's when all the 'cooties' start also. I have a 5 year old brother, and he knows what makes a girl a girl and what makes a boy a boy. I'm 14, and i sort of remember that whole 'cooties' thing, back in like the 1st grade. and all those people who are saying that you shouldn't take baths with your teenage brothers SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT WHEN SHE WAS LIKE 3!!!!!

Answer 2

You should not take a bath with your brothers. They probably want to see how you look. The last time you wrote on this blog you said that they sit around in their boxers. Did you get the situation with the boxers solved? Did you have some girls help you drag them off the couch and carry them to their room and dress them.

Answer 3

Perhaps you should take the initiative and tell them that you prefer to be alone when taking a bath and getting dressed. You need to do the right thing it is time they learned, this is apart of growing up.

Answer 4

they probably registered this info around puberty, when the public school system forces you to learn about the opposite sex, and your own sex also. Your bros just probably feel uncomfortable talking about it to you, so they just avoid the subject around you. As to those people who say dont shower with them, She is talking about when she was probably like three, and they were around that age too. It is perfectaly fine, i used to bath with my bro when i was little. She is not saying she is a fully developed teen shweing with fully developed brothers to this day, this is what happened when she was young, and this kind of stuff did not matter much.

Answer 5

Well, I'm sure your brothers know that you are a girl. My brother knows I'm a girl, and yes, when we were three and under we took baths together, and that's when we realized we weren't exactly the same.

Answer 6

well i have two twin boys and they recently asked (at the age of 2) why their "down stairs" looks like that and i explained to them thats because they're little boys and thats how little boys are made and one of my sons asked "Well what do girls look like" i then explained to them that girls look a little different down there for reasons that they'll learn when they get older, so to answer your question my boys learned at age 2 that girls and boys are different.

Answer 7

hon ..they know..they are just messing with you in a very harmful way..do not be around them nude or skimmpy dress for they are just learning also..no touching..rubbing ...wrestling.....you do of course know about ..things such as rape among older brothers and sisters..please correct this situition and call an adult or a center..do not continue this play in this game

Answer 8

Waalaykum asalaam brother, jazakallahu khairun for that, we all need a reminder every now and then about watching our tongue and only speak when necessary, may Allah swt reward you : )

Answer 9

when they are between 5 or 6....

Answer 10

well if i were you i wouldnt be taking showers with my brothers.WHY?. well as you said your brothers ae14,16 they are already discovering there sexuality and are begining to get aroused by female companionship. you should respect there space because you can never be sure how a teenager is going to react with a female. so, DONT TAKE SHOWERS WITH YOUR BROTHERS !!!!!!