loner at school.?

Question

i`m having the HARDEST time at school =( i feel SO alone at times && it`s hard to go thru school without any friends. i know we go to school to learn, but i also want to go there to see my friends && to have fun (: i want to be popular in a way and have people BACK ME UP. i try being nice to people but then they just talk behind my back && call me FAKE! && when i try to be myself, and not TOO nice to everyone, they still talk behind my backk :(

i don`t get itt. should i try being a biatttch to everyone? hahh. that won`t get me anywhere. but when i`m nice, sooo many people take advantage of thatt && use me.

HELP?
THANK YOU !!

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Answer 1

Go talk to people, make friends. Engage in many school activities and you'll find people in there you can make friends with. For example, when your in your seat, talk to your neighbor or start a conversation by asking him something. (Not saying like how's the weather, but whatever you want to talk about) I'm sure if they are not a messed up person they will talk to you. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

everyone wants the same thing as you do, to have friends to back you up to have fun with, to be popular. finding good friends can be hard, a lot of times they turn out to be fakes who say one thing to you face and another behind your back. you don't want to be friends with these kind of people, trust me I've been there. and I've been the loner at school too, it sucks. but you cant let people walk all over you no one likes a push over, you need to gain some respect, just learn to say no and find someone your around a lot, maybe a classmate and make a new friend, its not much but its a start and you'll feel a lot better about yourself.

Answer 3

I think you should just be yourself to begin with. If people don't come around and still talk behind your back .. there not your friends and don't so much worry about it. The best way to make friends is by participating in school activities such as sports, clubs or any other afterschool activities your school might have. What about Church? or perhaps from volunteering in your community?

Answer 4

Do not worry about it hun, Life is a roller coaster, there will be ups and downs. I think u should always be urself and be true to urself. Being something u are not will get u nowhere. After the rain the sun will shine again, and u will see that things always get better!!!!! I wish u the best!

Answer 5

join clubs, play a sport, or be a part of your school's student government. the only way you'll be able to meet people in a good way is if you get out there and participate in school activities. that way people will be forced to get to know you. (and i don't mean that in a bad way.) it gives them the chance to get to know you for who you really are. because in my past experiences, i've always shown my true colors while working on projects when i was a part of my school's student government and when i competed on my soccer team. plus, i made and still keep in touch with my four besties who i've met through the extra curricular activities i did.

Answer 6

Well, try to make friends. There are some people who are exactly like you, so.... don't worry. Anyways, you made a mistake. You can't have a period and question mark together. Good Luck!

Answer 7

try finding a group to belong to...
if you are interested in being a doctor join a nursing club, if you like dancing, join dance classes.
You are more likely to make friends when you share a common interest.
best wishes

Answer 8

it takes time to make friends, and if you want real friends then it is worth waiting to get to know other people. Join a club or sporting team of interest, eventually you will meet friends.

Answer 9

well mabey you are just trying to fit into the the wrong crowd. try fitting in to another groupe for people that understand you for you and not somebody that you are trying to be

Answer 10

do you just wanna hang with the big guns or why not hang with average kids ..im shure 1 kid is also alone like you in the school