Has anyone had a miscarage? how did you feel when you found out?

Question

or if havent how do you think you would feel? would you be able to get over it and try again? how explain in good detail!

Answer 1

I had a misscarriage at 16weeks ( she was a girl) , the whole pregnancy was a nightmare from December 2003 to March 22, 2004 when she was born. I bleed the whole way through. I tried to hang on to the pregnancy, but it didn't work.. somtimes i think Why? then what if I carried her he whole 9 months... wold she have been healthy was ther a reason?...the worst was i gave birth to her all alone, i was in the hospital (thank god) but it was 5:30..so it couldn't be help...but the nurse ignore me till after the baby was born...my doctor was wonderful and helped me that night...but the same nurse put my baby in a plastic bucket with a lid and named it "specimen 16 weeks" and left it beside my bed for the day...after my D andC...For the next year councelling anti depressants and ALOT of family support. Now I have two healthy babies one 22 months and a 9 months..but i still wonder , if I stop and think i always cry.. it get better with time, time and family love heals my pain but i will never forget her (Brianna Laura Kennedy) but I am so busy with my babies now . but i know even when i am 80 i will shead tears for her..being a woman is a blessed curse...and i can live with that

Answer 2

I've had two miscarriages. Here's the process. I had a beautiful baby boy, with many complications. A year later I got pregnant and miscarried at 11 weeks.. That was hard, and very upsetting. About 8 months later, I had another miscarriage at like 6 weeks. This was not as bad, but I still was feeling down because it seemed like a pattern was developing. Now, I am 17 weeks pregnant without any problems so far. I had some bleeding, but that was due to an irritated cervix. I believe that if you want a child, you should keep trying. It can be hard, but if you experience them, you should go to a doctor and see if anything is wrong, if not, then keep trying. There's nothing better than having your babies.

Answer 3

I had 2
I was devasted, the pain was bad but the emotional pain was worst the first one did not down on me until my mother in law & my husband was crying
my 2nd was hard as well, the whole family goen throw it with me
I was depress for months (both time)
but now I am preg again the doc wants me to stay in bed,
I held my breath everyday and thank God every night that the baby is still inside me today I am 4 weeks pregnant
Have I get over my 2 misc NO
will I ever I hope so, although the last one was a 1 year ago
I still think about it
IF you had one I am sorry for the lost

Answer 4

Devestated. I had three before I got pregnant with my daughter. I knew each time as soon as I was pregnant. I knew as soon as my first missed period, I took the test and WOW. Then a few weeks later I'd lose the pregnancy. The truth is, you don't have a choice in how you move on. You just do. Life keeps going. The loss of any life, even one so small is horrible. But you keep going. With my daughter, I didn't find out till I was three and a half months along. I'm thankful for that.

Answer 5

I had a miscarriage about 2 years ago. When it happened I was devastated of course at first but then I realized that I was not meant to have that baby. I would have felt extremely guilty if the baby was not able to live a full productive life if born with birth defects. It also taught me a lesson that life is precious and the father (whom I am no longer with)and I would have had serious problems b/c we werent ready. But now my husband and I are due to have our first baby Friday and I am more confident and at ease with this pregnancy than I was with the last one.

Answer 6

I had a normal first pregnancy but my cervix was open and know my son is two years old. Then I got pregnant and miscarriaged and it literally about killed me and it hurt so much it was the wost pain I have ever went through. But now I am pregnant with another boy and I am due in march. But I was really crushed when I found out and I couldnt stop crying. Hope that helps you out

Answer 7

I have never personally had a misscarriage (knock on wood). A really good friend of mine has had 3 and had 2 children inbetween the misscarriages and I went through them with her and it was devestating to me I couldn't imagine how she was feeling. I could only be there for her and hope for the best the next time around. She is now pregnant again she is 10 weeks and we are praying for this one. This will be her 3rd living child.

Answer 8

I've misscarried twice. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to go through in my life. It's like a part of you is being taken away and you have no control over it.

I have one healthy child and I am trying to conceive my second, I only hope that I can make it all the way with this one.

Answer 9

I haven't had one (fingers crossed i don't!!) - i am 17wks pregnant now and if i had one i would be absolutely devastated!! I want this baby so very much that it would almost kill me if i lost baby now! If it were to happen i doubt i would be able to try again for a very long time - it would just be heart-wrenching not to mention nerve wracking worrying about "what if it happened again". I already worry so much about baby now... without any real valid reason to do so apart from the fact that its my baby, that my nerves not to mention mental health might not be able to cope if i had an actual reason to worry about it.

My heart goes out to anyone who has experienced it!

Answer 10

i'm six and 1/2 wks pregnant right now...if i had a miscarriage i would be heartbroken...i don't think i'd have the zeal to try again for a very long time...