I went through a period of time whre I was deeply depressed.
At the same time I was into a great relationship with my girlfriend and we were suxually very VERY active, so one day I had my first and last gay encounter with some guy whith boobs TS (He gave me a protected BJ and I did the same to him). that was it. I really did not like it let's say I did not feel nothing when I was sucking on him It just felt disgusting.
Now I know I'm not Gay because I really enjoy women and just do not care about men. It just to me a new experience.
What do you think AM i gay or BI from your point of view??
(I STILL with my girl and we are still VERY Very sexually active)
Or am i just a horny muthafuckah?
2006-11-07 11:57:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, the sex disgusts you and you don't feel an emotional connection. Relax, you're straight; lots of people experiment.
2006-11-07 12:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Purplepossum 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From what you say I would normally think that you are on the straight side of bisexual.
BUT
What does your depression have to do with your orientation? Do you think your depression was caused by your sexuality?
You were deeply depressed yet at the same time you were in a great relationship with your gf. So what gives?
You were so depressed that you decided to cheat on your gf with a transgender person? Was this person a prostitute by any chance? If it was just a booty call, say so.
Then I could say, that what you are experiencing now are feelings of guilt.
Please tell me because I feel that there's something else going on here and that you are not telling the full story.
Regards
2006-11-07 12:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are sexually very active, experimenting and discovering who you are and what you are all about. If you're happy with this girl then fine. Go for straight. But are you sure you are not still thinking about guys sexually? Be sure.
You are probably on the Kinsey scale at about a 3 -- which means you're bi-sexual. Most people are. See this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_Reports You will understand after you read through this.
2006-11-07 12:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by SuperCityRob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your are either gay, bi, or straight and that is defined by who you are sexually attracted to. Since you say you had only one encounter that you did not even like, that you know you are not gay, and you are involved with someone of the opposite sex I would say that you are straight.
2006-11-07 12:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you insist on a label?
I think "Horny" is probably generally accurate. You've had
one homosexual experience, but so what?
Even if you had another one ... so what?
If you generally prefer men to women, then you are certainly gay.
If you generally prefer women to men, then you are certainly not.
If you like to mix it up, well, people will call you bi-.
But c'mon. What's the deal here? Why is the label so
important?
2006-11-07 12:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by Elana 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can not judge you from your experience but considering you have already reached your climax before helping him achieve his does make sex un intersting at this point.
You felt it was safe because it was a shemale to some extent. (my opinion)
Are you attracted to other guys. (it is o.k. if you are)
You might want to seek a psychologist to help you explore futher.
It took me 30 years to come from the closet... (wow, what a feeling it was) The sad thing is that I was married and divorced in the process. (may she forgive me for taking her through this process)
2006-11-07 14:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by southernboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not gay...what in the world is the big deal about being Straight or gay..you know you are not gay, why even bring this up here?
2006-11-07 12:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call you very inquisitive & curious about things. But if you did it and didn't enjoy it & didn't come back for more, then you're straight, as far as I can discern. Not to worry!
2006-11-07 14:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were depressed not gay or bi. You didn't like it, so leave it in your past and move on.
2006-11-07 12:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHHH, um.... that is wierd you may have gay tendencies cause you actually went through with it, I mean if I was not enjoying that I Would have stoped . You actually even got yourself in that position.
2006-11-07 12:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by â?¥ Pawya! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋