Me and my boyfriend broke up for 4 months, I started seeing someone else,we had protected sex twice in September then 3 weeks later my boyfriend and I got back together,had sex on October 7(unprotected)now I'm preganant,I want to keep the baby but I'm scared it may be the other guy's baby. How long does it take to concieve a baby? that will help me detrmine who fatherd the baby until I visit the Dr.
2006-11-07 11:44:13 · 11 answers · asked by Reese 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You cannot know until you find out how many weeks' pregnant you are. Assuming you've only missed one period, it seems likely your boyfriend is the father.
For an educated guess, plug in the dates of your last period into an ovulation calculator like this one:
http://www.babycenter.com/calculators/ovulation/
This will at least give you an idea when you were most likely to be fertile.
2006-11-07 11:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by eli_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could take anywhere from 2 secs. to hours to conceive a baby. But, to find out an approximate conception date, you need to talk to your doctor, and find out how far along you are. However, you should still get a DNA test later. Doctors are wrong about due dates ALL the time. If you want to keep the baby, it should not matter who the father is. You know without a doubt that it is your baby, and if your boyfriend can't deal with it, then get rid of him, not the baby.
2006-11-07 11:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if this months period is the only one that you have missed then it is your boyfriends baby. BUT if you missed your september period then the father of the baby could be the other guy. have a look on www.yourdays.com and type in all your details of your periods etc.. it will give you your fertile days and you can scroll back to september to see if you were fertile around the days you and the other guy had sex. its a free site just register.
otherwise you will have to ask your doctor for an ultrasound to confirm dates. goodluck
2006-11-07 12:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jordy[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conception is something that occurs within your menstrual cycle. I believe you are most likely to get pregnant within seven days before your period is due.
So if your period was within seven days after you had sex with "someone else" then it is possible that it could be his, although a condom would make it less likely.
If your period was within seven days after you had sex with your boyfriend then it would most likely be his.
But hon, I am not a doctor. When you speak to your doctor you don't necessarily have to tell her that you slept with two different men since September. All you need to tell her is when you had sex and your menstrual cycle - specifically that month.
I personally believe it is likely that it would be your boyfriends because you said you didn't use protection with him. I wish you luck with that.
2006-11-07 11:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only takes one time to concieve and the best way to determine when you got pregnant is to go to the doctor and when they do an ultrasound they can narrow down the time for you. If you give dates to your doc on when you had sex and with whom they should be able to give you a rough estamite on who could be the father. Good luck !!!!
2006-11-07 11:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go by ur last period ..and give or take 2 weeks should help u out. the doctor should be able to tell how far along u r. there is a 80-20% ratio there on it being ur boyfriends baby.. and besides no matter what ...its ur baby. only takes one time to get pregnant
2006-11-07 11:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance came inside me twice and I got pregnant! If you're young and fertile its SUPER easy. It takes the average couple 4-18months but then again that includes people into their forties who aren't as fertile as say a 21year old.
2006-11-07 11:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i finished nursing my daughter at 6 months. We purely used condoms till my daughter grew to become into 10 months previous and we began to ttc returned. It purely took us 5 months yet regrettably I had an early miscarriage at 5 weeks 2 days............that grew to become into in January and we are on month #2 of attempting returned. i could purely start to have unprotected intercourse each and every time your waiting for yet another toddler and be informal approximately it! they say as quickly as you start to attempt problematic at ttc it does no longer take place. good success!
2016-10-03 09:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by murchison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty fast my husband and i tryed on the 15 and 17 of october and that's all it took i am now pregnant. it only took us 2 days, other times he always wore a condom.
2006-11-07 11:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by tear drop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Took me one try.... was the first time we decided to start trying and not use a condom. All it takes is one little swimmer....
2006-11-07 12:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋