I'm 37 and have a bladder control problem. I'm afraid my husband won't find me attractive if I wear the Depends things. What if it was your wife?
2006-11-07 11:04:05 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can get this fixed, sweetie. Go to a doctor. There are surgeries that help this tremendously. Also...for those who are making jokes...this will happen to about 90% of all women who have children or that live long enough! You can also do Kegel exercises to help strengthen the muscels that hold the bladder up. Do a google on kegels and how to's, Drink less caffine, and go see your doctor. It's really not that big of a deal and your husband would be a jerk if he said anything about it, especially if you have carried HIS children that possibly helped to cause this. Good luck sweetie.
2006-11-07 11:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by sugarbud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a lady but I do have the same problem. If the depends work, then I would tell you to wear them if it helps you. Sometimes, I have to change underwear two or three times a day, and I can understand the embarrsment you go thru, because I have.
I have had to walk into the store and purchase new shorts. Now I carry an extra pair of pants and underwear in my van.
I take medication for it, but it does not work everytime for me.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-07 15:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bladder control problems may be controlled with medication or exercise, see your doctor first. something as easily treated as a UTI may cause these symptoms. If it's a minor problem something as simple as a panty liner may do the trick without having to resort to the bulkier Depends. and as everyone else has said, your husband should still love you no matter what is happening to your body. "in sickness and in health", remember? lol as we all get older, things like this are not as uncommon with people as we fear. good luck!
2006-11-07 11:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by corkyhorse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if your husband really loves and respects you he will be entirely understanding... if he stops loving you or doesn't find you attractive or something because of something that you cannot control, then that is really sad on his part. Good luck :)
2006-11-07 11:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the problem is treatable with medication and in some cases surgery , check with your doctor to find out the cause and best solution to problem . an what kind of husband is he to not find you attractive
2006-11-07 11:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a gynaecologist to get a surgery to tighten your bladder opening. Don't suffer anymore.
2006-11-07 21:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel bad- for her. I would still find her attractive. No matter what minor problems come along, your spouse will find you attractive, since they love you.
2006-11-07 12:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually many men find urinating women powerfully attractive.
2006-11-07 11:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If everything else was ok we would get by it easy.Maybe I wear them just to make you comfortable.Good Luck!
2006-11-07 11:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back into life...There are worse things in life. He will still love you. Stop being silly.
2006-11-07 11:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋