What is it that attracts you to another person? When looking for your soul mate-what do you look for?
2006-11-07 10:56:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i am bi and what attracts me to another person is confidence. if they know who they are and what they want in life they are attractive. i don't look for a soul mate i figure if he or she is out there i'll know when i meet them
2006-11-07 10:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never looked for a soul mate. If one is out there it will just happen. As for what attracts me to another person- honesty, caring, loving, fun, secure with themselves, not into games, and the list goes on but the first 3 items are the most important to me.
2006-11-07 19:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that I have been asking myself for years. And the simplicist answer is there is no such thing as an "ideal mate" because over time everyone changes.
2006-11-07 19:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am attracted to someone who can keep my attention, who can make me laugh on my worst day and make me cry on my best, who knows everything about me and loves me anyway, who is my best friend. If a girl can hold an intelligent conversation she immediately has my attention. I also look for someone with similar political, religious, moral beliefs. I want a soulmate who can always keep me on my toes. Physically my only requirement is nice teeth, a smile that can bring me to my knees, and eyes that can see through to my soul.
2006-11-07 19:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by riot grrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam pretty much older iam sure but an old lady told me one time that a person who you love and want to share your life with is the ideal mate but the perfect ideal mate is one who loves you more
2006-11-07 19:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by jessie l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty,intelligence,healthy,
not
promiscuous
yet very open of mind,
slender,articulate,mature
heart,
and mind yet full of humor,and never forgetting
the youth within them which allows them to
have fun,and have adventure throughout their
life.
Someone who yearns for a lifelong or least a
very longterm serious monogamous relationship
built on true friendship/love.
2006-11-07 20:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked for someone who wouldn't take any of my cr*p. Someone who wasn't afraid to stand up to me, who wasn't willing to simply put me on a pedestal because I was a Dominant without really learning who I am. I found her four years ago, her name is kate.
2006-11-07 20:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who attracts me, inspires me, and also with whom I feel totally free.
A person with whom I feel totally secure of sharing anything that is mine, without fear.
2006-11-07 19:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by Pour la Paix. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i look for a female who is FUN!! i dont want no boring chickl, i want someone that loves me for me and not into no crazy ****. I love my women like i love my ? Well i look for there hearts to be calm and kind.
2006-11-07 22:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who's as interested in me as I am in her.
2006-11-07 18:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋