for 3 years now, and I cant conceive. Why is that?? I dont want to go the dr. because they might say that I have something.. but I really dont know what to do. Im desparate!!! HELP!
2006-11-07 10:31:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-11-07 13:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ehem... that's like saying "I don't want to open my eyes because I might see the wall I'm about to walk into". If you "have something" will the problem go away if the doctor doesn't see you? No. So quit being an ostrich with your head buried in the sand and talk to a good doctor. There are plenty of very good doctors that can really help you. And it might be that there's nothing wrong with you, but maybe something wrong with your husband's plumbing. Or maybe there's nothing wrong with either one.. (you sure you're doing it the correct way? Ok, I'm being a bit silly) I hope you will be able to have a baby.
2006-11-07 18:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to the doctor if you really want a baby. The doctors can help you to conceive. Maybe theres nothing wrong its just not time for you yet! I tried to conceive for 4 years and I didn't get pregnant I went to the doctor and they told me nothing was wrong. Now I finally got pregnant and Im 7 months!
2006-11-07 18:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by Magi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor.
It took me and my husband 3 years. I went to doctor after doctor and they all said everything was normal. In my case I was having highly irregular periods so pinpointing ovulation was ridiculous.
I went to the doctor and got a prescription for Clomid. Now it doesn't work on everyone but it helps you ovulate. The first month I took clomid, charted my temperture and symptoms and used a ovulation predictor kit. 2 weeks later I found out we were pregnant.
Don't be afraid, sometimes there truly is nothing wrong and its a matter of timing. Go out and get a basal body thermometer, start temping and charting. go to the doc and ask about clomid. Try this for 3 months before seeing a specialist.
2006-11-07 18:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by s_sill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have something that can be easily fixed...and by waiting it is getting worse or you are just wasting time.
You can't hide your head in the sand forever if this is really important to you....and the problem could be with your husband as well, so he should get a check up too.
2006-11-07 18:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be worried to do something so important. It may not be YOU. It could be your husband. You never know until you go to the doctor and check it out
2006-11-07 18:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Skittles-Dark Edition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself and husband to a dr. Hopefully there isn't anything that you "have" but the dr. may be able to help you and your husband have children. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-11-07 18:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by 86Mets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor. No one on here can give you a long distance diagnosis!!!
2006-11-07 18:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋