my best friend for 9 years Ryan is in love with me.
I dont see him that way.
he told me how he felt a year ago saying he has always loved me. i told him i could'nt see him that way . he say's ok.. i'll wait. And he is!!! is he obesive? what do i do ?
2006-11-07 10:27:08 · 10 answers · asked by jessica c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are doing the right thing, don't give him any hope if you don't feel anything for him.hopefully he will understand. good luck!!!
2006-11-07 10:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you don't have to say anything regarding this. If he brings it up again, then just tell him again you don't feel the way he had to you.
Just tell him to stay as friends if he brings it up. You don't have to bring it up and should not bring it up. If you bring it up out of nowhere, he will think that you are thinking about it all the time and has feelings toward him. Let him and the issue alone and think of him as a friend.
Time will tell what will happen next. You may find someone. Or he may give up and find someone. Or something may happen and you look at him differently.
Anyway, I will not be bothered too much by this.
2006-11-07 18:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my best friend better love me for it is my husband !!
But then again I did just have a guy friend of mine ask me if something happened to my husband if I would ever consider dating him ! I SCREAMED NO!!! I don't think of him like that at all... my guy friend is like a brother to me not a lover.. yuk*cough*hack*
You will need to grin and bear it for if he loves you it will not be easy getting over you. Just be honest with him right off so the healing can begin!!!
Good Luck !
: )
2006-11-07 19:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be so lucky to have your best friend love you. What are you looking for in a bf if friendship is not the foundation? Is this guy really your best friend? I think the friendship is as one-sided as the affection.
2006-11-07 18:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one. All I can say is follow your heart it will tell you the right decisions to make.
2006-11-07 18:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by KRISTE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him again how u feel and you don;t want him to be your friend if he has ulterior motives....Tell him that you don't want him putting his life on hold for someone who is not going to pick up....If you can remain friends after that then cool. just make sure you make it crystal clear and that you don't take advantage of his feelings.
2006-11-07 18:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess ur the girl of his dreams! stay friends with him. if you really will never like him like that one day hes gonna fall in love with some other girl. but please, be happy for him and dont be one of thoes girls that gets upset because your not his life anymore.
2006-11-07 19:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a real b/f. Then he'll have to move on.
2006-11-07 18:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get a life.
2006-11-07 18:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will get over it one of these days, don't worry
2006-11-07 18:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋