I am a gay man. I fell in love with what I thought was another man, but it turned out that she was a lesbain woman that looked liek a man and she thought I was another lesbian girl that looked liek a man. we both realized the truth. now that I know she is a woman, I dont know if I like her. I dont know if I should stay with her cause she missing that manlyness that I love.
2006-11-07 10:05:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I cant belive no one belives me! All lesiban woman look like men and this one looked like enough of a man to me. And I look like a woman as I have been altered. There for we each thought the other was the same sex as ourselves.
2006-11-07 10:20:04 · update #1
spazz
2006-11-07 10:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds confusing! The best thing you can do is stop trying to define your feelings as 'gay'/'straight' and and find out what you really want from a relationship. The main thing I would say from what I understand of your current relationship it is not fair to stay with someone you 'feel sorry for' Yeah it might hurt to be 'straight' with someone, but it'll better for everyone in the long run!
2006-11-07 18:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a decision both of you have to make...But You did fall in love for her not the way she looked or what she was....so if you really say it was love you will stay with her..if not then you never really loved her and u should just leave her....
2006-11-07 18:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by babygigglez_09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm also starting to doubt your posts . . . weren't you the one-boobed FtM with a girlfriend problem not too long ago?
Oh well.
Anyways- if you're not sexually attracted, don't keep the relationship going. That's all.
2006-11-07 21:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has anyone just flat out called you a liar yet? Get a life, make it someplace else.
2006-11-07 20:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only assume you are both straight and highly confused. :-) Surely this is a joke, and a good one at that.
2006-11-07 18:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea right-did you fall inlove in a day?It's hard to believe you didn't know what she/he was before you feel inlove !!!!
2006-11-07 18:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are either both blind or this is a made up situation.
2006-11-07 18:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋