I have a friend who told other friend of mine he was gay, but then he turned around and said he was not gay. But he is really girly and plus he said he liked a guy in my class. So is he or what?
2006-11-07 10:04:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
he is afraid, and well he should be, to come out fully. Leave it alone, don't bring it up, and certainly do not tell anyone else what he has said. He confided in you and it is a secret between you. He will find himself in time, but right now, if he is gay, he is very lonely, feels like the odd ball in a sea of people who are not gay. IT is NOT a nice feeling. IF it were to get out that he is gay, others will pick on him and make his life miserable. IT is a fact that suicide rates in Gay male teens is 5 times higher than the rest of teen males...a difficult time as it is, but being Gay make it much harder ... Good luck
2006-11-07 10:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's probaly gay , but doesn't really wantto come out of the closet for many reasons perhaps one is how will his friends fell, heck some are asking open questions at yahoo. then of course there is that question how is his family going to react.
2006-11-07 18:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by robert s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take his word for it, not the other guy. If he is and wants you to know, he will tell you. Otherwise you should mind your own business. Not everyone is as open about it as some of us are.
2006-11-07 18:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by who cares 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well...you really cant believe anybody because they can just be spreading rumors. So dont think nothing of it until u hear it coming from him instead of jumping to conclusion.
2006-11-07 18:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by babygigglez_09 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does it matter?
Seriously, does it affect you in anyway?
If so, check your tolerance levels, hon, they might be a bit low.
2006-11-07 18:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound really nosy to me. leave the guy alone and stop trying to second guess his sexuality.
2006-11-07 18:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by waggy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because your friend said it doesn't mean it's true. Stop gossiping.
2006-11-07 18:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it would only matter if you planed to sleep with him or not.
2006-11-07 18:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has an achy pounding sensation in his a.s.s. it means he's gay.
2006-11-07 18:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by merosargento 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Answer:
Does it really matter?
2006-11-07 18:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋