There is a friend of mine, Caroline. She is really sweet and beautiful. We are really close friends and just recently I started really liking her. I was about to tell her I like her, but another boy Graham told her. Now they have been going out for about a week and they are really serious. What should I do? Wait till Caroline and Graham break up or just be close friends with her and go for someone else?
2006-11-07 10:01:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That blows. Be close with her, focus on having her as a friend, and remember that when they break up you should wait until she has time to recover. Don't do anything more than you trust yourself to-- if you participate in cheating on Graham with Caroline then you will pretty much ruin any possibility of a serious relationship between yourself and Caroline. Good luck, and the world needs more guys like you!
2006-11-07 10:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Eleanor Rigby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, I would say a week is not a very long time anyone to become serious. If she really has started something with the Graham that's OK. May time great relationship were created when a guy would fight for the girl he loved. At one week I still take the chance and ask her out. If she says no. At least she new you tried to fight for her.
2006-11-07 10:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by wilderness walker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship = Relationship, be her friend first, and she will go through tough times with her new bf, just hang around be rightous and caring, do whats best for her, dont be dishonest with her. Dont manipulate her. and just be there for her first, attraction will develope over time, It really doesnt matter. It will work out nomatter what you do, just dont get in the way of her feelings toward the other guy. and if he treats her like crap tell her, and if he beats her beat his ***.
2006-11-07 10:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by lordshelbysf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Morals should tell you that you should respect another man's relationship enough to not interfere or covet her. You really should think about this. How would you feel if someone disrespected you and wanted to date your girlfriend? The problem these days is that people do what feels good. You want her and you will do the wrong things to have her. This is a bad way to live. DON'T DO IT! Good luck.
2006-11-07 10:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by marathon688 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
a week is not serious. you should just forget about her and socialize with other girls. there is more than 1 female in the world.
2006-11-07 10:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by adrianascatering 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
don't chase, don't beg, don't wait around. if it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
2006-11-07 10:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
thats what i would do.
2006-11-07 10:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by steve s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋