Ok well.... I have been going out with my bf for 2 years and im im a senior. SOmetimes we go to eachothers houses and we see eachothers parents but they never see eachother. Until last year.... They some how feel in love write after my bf and I did! I'm afraid they are going to get married and that means my bf would be my STEPBROTheR!
10min... Im still frustrated My bf and I were thinking to try to split them up but if that happens that may cause them to not let my bf and I stay together.
12.min I need a really good answer to help me out with this proble so try to WRITE! as many details
15.min **SOBS**
2006-11-07 09:46:43 · 11 answers · asked by *StarFashion* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell your mom how you feel
2006-11-07 09:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not blood related, so it doesn't matter. You should tell these parents of your feelings for eachother. Also let them know that you will stay together regardless of whatever may happen with their relationship. That way there is no upset when and if there is an impending marriage down the line.
2006-11-07 17:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you make up your own additional details format?
haha wow
Anyway, I think you should just break up with your bf for now and see how your mom and his dad's relationship goes. You should also talk to your mom and tell her it's not fair that you guys were dating first. If it isn't serious between yall's parents then I wouldn't worry about it because that could mean a break up soon. Don't try to break them up; that'll make matters worse.
GoOd LuCk!!
⥠Tori
2006-11-10 21:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Life Is Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the first thing you need to do is get everyone involved to sit down. Then tell your parents how you feel, and why. Explain yourself and how you feel about the situation. Dont wait and dont try and split them up.
My brother and sister married sister and brother. But they had to sit down and talk about how it made them feel before they would go through with anything.
The same thing applies in your situation. Talk, dont hold it in.
2006-11-07 17:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by Falconhorse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not to sure why you have a problem. Whether your mom marries this guy or not you and your boyfriend will not be related by blood and you can still date him. And if your worried about people talking then you will have to learn not to let what other people say bother you. Your mom deserves to be happy just as much as you do...How would you feel if she wanted to do this to you!!!!
2006-11-07 18:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you care for your boyfriend, stay with him. It's two separate relationships here, and while a bit odd, it can be done. Try not to let your parents affect your relationship so much.
Question: what do your parents say about it??
Good luck.
2006-11-07 17:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SO WHAT ? The 2 relationships have nothing to do with each other because you still won't be blood relations.
Why are you tripping about this ? Except maybe you'll have to live together if they move together . . .
2006-11-07 17:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if its not a biological link. If they get married good for them just make sure you tell them you dont ever want to be reffered to as stepbrother and sister. Besides your a senior and chances are he wont be the guy you marry.
2006-11-07 18:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by holycowitcouldbe 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds like you and your bf need to sit down with both of your parents and explain your feelings on this matter
2006-11-07 17:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....you could do that but you got to think about your mom to...maybe you should talk to your mom about it and tell her how you feel...it can't hurt
2006-11-07 17:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by tiny nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋