what do you do when,you feel exhausted? Not physically exhausted ,(mentally) meaning your tired of being tired and hurting and the pain form men and women and everyday life. How do you make a change to stop the hurt. What do you do when your in a relationship and the person is giving you the vibe that there (cheating),well not really cheating just not feelin you no more,and you dont want to comfront them about it because you could be wrong. How do you go about that, how do you all talk it out with out them getting mad. One last question : How do YOU make your special someone happy, well have a happy relationship ? With my girl im tired of arguing i just wanna be real and leave the childish games,and can too people come to an understanding on that? Is it when they grow?
2006-11-07 09:38:04 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just let her know you don't want to play the mind games, or argue constantly or any of that bs...if she continues to do it, tell her that the relationship will probably not work out. Love ain't supposed to hurt mentally or physically
2006-11-07 09:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by joker:P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be time for you two to have a little time apart.... You should not be exhausted by a relationship mentally... There is obviously too much going on to try to change things.. It is overwhelming for you... It is time for a break., step outside of the relationship and get yourself together and strong mentally again. You can';t know that a relationship is real when you are in this state... If she wanders off then you have answers and you go on, but I bet by then you will see things in a different light, You need to get your inner power and peace back so you can have a real life... There are always ups and downs in relationships but games are not a real part of it.. If she is up to games and manipulation then you need to walk, and now before she emasculates you or gives you a break down....
You deserve to have a good relationship, she will treat you badly if you let her. what do you want in a gf.??????Reality or games???
2006-11-07 17:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would really have a hart to hart talk with this person and let him know how you feel if that doesn't work and they dont change they really dont care about you and how you feel so then you know its time to move on and find someone else remember their is a lot of fish in the sea and that time heals all wounds
2006-11-07 17:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by mart1gon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF IT IS GIVING YOU THIS MUCH PAIN AND HEARTACHE SWEETIE LET IT GO. IT IS NOT WORTH IT IN THE END TRUST ME I KNOW. IF YOU "FEEL" LIKE SOMEONE IS NOT THERE EMOTIONALLY OR PHYSICALLY THEN THEY ARE PROBABLY NOT BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT A FOOL AND YOU KNOW WHEN YOU ARE NOT GETTING WHAT YOU WANT. AND THE BOTTOM LINE IS WHO CARES IF THEY GET MAD OR WHATEVER YOUR NEEDS ARE NOT BEING MET LOOK OUT FOR YOU AND YOUR HAPPINESS.. PEACE AND LOVE
2006-11-07 17:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by TEXNICIOUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking to bestfriend makes me feel a lot better. and hanging out w/ them is a lot easier 2 4get about problems
2006-11-07 17:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart, the only way to feel better is to talk with someone.
2006-11-07 17:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to that person and if they won't listen get someone else to talk to them and if they still won't listen leave them be.
2006-11-07 17:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by Source 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey....if you really think she is cheating then comfront her.....but hey life is never that bad.....just get out there and have some fun .
2006-11-07 17:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by tiny nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS TIME TO LET GO. YOU BOTH GREW APART. HOPE YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT PERSON SOMETIME IN LIFE.
2006-11-07 17:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn! Be a Man!
And seriously, think about that phrase, "Be a Man".
2006-11-07 21:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Manix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋