can you change your personality?i want to worry less and stop being obsessed with love?

Answer 1

Of course you can. You can do anything you want with your personality if you believe in it enough..


Just don't ask me how..I am few peanuts short of a mixed assortment

Answer 2

The adage goes that people never change, but I disagree with that. Life is an ever changing process and we fall into routines, it takes time to change these routines but if you work at it, yes. To worry less, recognize when you start to fret about things and consider whether it is within your control or not, if it's not, repeat the expression god grant the serenity to accept the things I cannot change...occupy your mind with something useful, read a book, study, learn something new. To stop obsessing with love draw a line and consider what is natural, acceptable, unsuffocating and pleasant for everyone throw everything else to the wind and remember that Romeo and Juliet was a fictional tragedy and nothing more. It's not healthy to obsess over anyone, and it's frightening to the other party. The root cause is usually a lack of self confidence or insecurity. There are risks in love, you can't hedge yourself from the risks involved. You may get hurt in the end but you can't obsess and smolder love you'll suffocate the flame. You have the powere to do anything you set your mind to!

Answer 3

Of course, you can change any thing you want, but just like every thing else it will take time and it will be difficult.
Think about all of the ppl you know and their good traits in those areas. Talk to your friends, maybe you are not obsessive. If you are in a relation ship where you are constantly worried about things, then maybe that is not the right person for you.
When you get right down to it, you have to love and trust you before you can love and trust someone else.

Answer 4

This doesn't really tell exactly how to do, but its a step in the right direction....

1 motivation. Figure out how you personally do to be motivated to solve this ad to continue this motivation, how to avoid losing motivation and how to just keep trying.

2 You simply just have to believe you can make it (of course it is possible to change personality! everyone does all the time more or less!)

3 be positive. Don't see failures, see possibilities of growth, improving changes, lessons, failures is the only way of processing and really getting forward.

4 evaluate results, do follow-ups

5 be flexible, change methods if they don't work - do not ever give up and you WILL succeed

6 visualize yourself as successful. Pretend to be somebody else for a week, like theater, pretend to be who you really want to be and really try to change thinking patterns just to see how it works. How it feels and how it changes things.

7 Make bad memories better. Get rid of the less use full memories and go looking for good ones you thought u forgot.

8 Support from surrounding people is very important. Make sure this is achieved.

9. About GOALS:
¤ Its important to have both long term and short termed goals.
¤ They should be about how you will achieve the wanted result, not just the result it self.
¤ They should have a time limit
¤ The need to be positive, about what to do and not about what not to do, avoiding-goals.
¤ It should be easy to measure if the goal is reached or not
¤ Don't forget evaluating, to think positively and be flexible!

Good luck =)

Answer 5

Anti anxiety meds will work for how much you worry, watch out for sexual side effects though, they can make you lose interest in sex, or make it impossible to orgasm, that's pretty common, you have to find one that works for you.

And the obsessing over love? talk to someone with a convincing point of view that will change how you think about it. You can message me if you want to. I"m a romantic person, but pragmatic, plus I'm often board and would be interested in chatting.

Answer 6

yes I believe people can change.'your personality is a lot of the way you act say and do things;if you want to change start with that.as for worry that's hard to do because most people do;and worrying about it doesn't help at all' try to keep your self occupied with things you enjoy;keep busy.'obsessed with love;if you love someone and they don;t love you back' they won't change' so you have to let it go and look for love somewhere else; or don't look sometimes love will find you'.

Answer 7

maybe you could change the worrying a little i have done that but i am too obsessed with love and it is hard to change

Answer 8

I'm really not qualified to answer this, but I am as a friend going to say NO. You are who you are. Get some help outside of the Internet. It really helped me with my PTSD's, Panic Disorder, and alcoholism. I really wish that we could talk. Don't get yourself in trouble with the law, or scare anyone with your love. That's an order.

Answer 9

Visit Psychology Today's website. They have a few interesting articles on self-reinvention.