I am part of a group of four best friends, made up of me and my best friend and the other two girls are better friends. One of the girls, a great friend and one of the nicest,sweetest girls you would ever meet started dating this guy. However, he cheated on her and she took him back. He asked her if she was ready for sex, and as she just recently turned 15 and wasnt ready so she said no. So the next night he got her drunk and raped her. She doesnt even know if he used protection, but thinks he would have because he 'loves' her. He also tried it on with our other friend in the group. She is scared and ashamed, of the label she would get if it got out. Despite his actions, she is still staying with him?!My heart aches for her but she doesnt know we know, as she only wanted her best friend to know about it, but she needed someone to talk to also.What can we do?
2006-11-07 08:16:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How old is this guy? If he is 18 or over, call the police and report this as a rape. At least tell this girls parents.
This is serious business.....think AIDS and pregnancy. Herpes, and more!
She needs to see a doctor at the very least. Do not be afraid to step in and do something - like tell someone who can help. As I said, this is serious, and honestly, 15 is too young to deal with this sort of stuff on your own...without adult help.
2006-11-07 08:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you honestly think these TWO times are it or perhaps he has been at it for a while? do you think he is about to stop
your friends need to think about these questions and do the right thing REPORT HIM!
knowing about it and holding back about it will protect feeling and reputation true but this brings to mind a couple things one, don't you as well as they think this guy is probably going to brag about it at some point in time on way or another (probably in a degrading manner). usually it's the woman who gets hurt the most if this happens but if she speaks out first she can usually do some damage prevention in that regard which is always easy-er than damage control!! and if she goes to the police there is at lest a good chance he could be punished.
but most importantly i feel best friends protecting a friend by keeping quiet and especially doing so in order to not let on that they know about something, more often than not regret doing so at a later date
good luck be strong think hard and do whats best for your friend
2006-11-07 16:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by whizbang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive, Be friends, BE THERE. She doesn't have to know that you know, but if it were at all possible, I'd get her to seek counselling...No 15 yr old girl should have to bear this on her own.
2006-11-07 16:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by boots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy needs to get his dick cut off. i think that ppl who rape other ppls should get their ***** [or vaginas] cut off. tell your friend that you are concerned that she is being so quiet and that you want to talk to her. she will never have to know that you knew.... just pretend like you didnt know.
2006-11-07 16:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
report his azz
2006-11-07 16:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋