I had a miscarriage June 9th I have been trying to get pregnant every since I got my 1st period since my Doctor said it was ok for me to try again I have not gotten pregnant, and ive been trying for 5 months my biggest fear is that my husband and i never have a baby. Is there something wrong? Am i never going to get pregnant and have a baby?
2006-11-07 08:01:27 · 22 answers · asked by Juliet 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Best to see medical specialists to get the best information . . .
2006-11-07 08:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and know how your feeling. I am sure you have heard this many times but what you need to do is relax and not worry about it so much. Wanting and being fearful so much can actually prevent pregancy.
It took me 2 years to get pregnant the first time. Then I had my first miscarriage. In my case I got pregnant right way. Btw it is best to wait about one year after a miscarriage. The reason being the body is still healing from the loss and it has been proven that when women get pregnant shortly after the miscarriage the chances of another is greater. Sooooo enjoy this time with the father to be and about 7 months from now try again but..........have fun trying :-) all will work out :-)
Opps forgot to mention I have had 2 full term pregnancy and now am the grandmother of three delightful grandchildren :-)
2006-11-07 08:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there might be somthing wrong with you but maybe not. My friends daughter and her husband were trying to get pergant for over 5 years and then they decide to adopt and 3 years later they found out that theres this little girl they could adopt and liek a week later she found out she was pregant.And now they have 2 beauitful children. So you may jusy be having a hard time. Think about adoption or artfical insemiation. {sorry thats not spelled right} But you never know. Praying also works. I hope you get everything worked.
2006-11-07 08:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by bug10us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried for over a year to have my oldest son who is now 9. I thought that I had problems myself and a doctor told me stress is the #1 factor in not getting pregnant. I was also told to take the first day that you start and count ahead 14 days and that is suppose to be the day that you get pregnant. You will also want to get the day or 2 before and after the 14th day to get the right day. Good Luck!
2006-11-07 08:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by cNm114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no perfect amount of time to wait before trying to conceive again, but many healthcare providers encourage woman to wait at least a few months to strengthen the chance of a healthy pregnancy. If a woman's body isn't ready to support a pregnancy by the time that she conceives again, she faces an increased risk of experiencing a repeat miscarriage. It takes time for the uterus to recover and for the endometrial lining to become strong and healthy again!
2006-11-07 08:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Talk to your doctor. Only your doctor can give you accurate advice on this topic. No one on here is qualified to diagnose you over the internet (though I personally do not think something is necessarily wrong with you -- many people try for years before they have children)
2. Not reproducing isn't the end of the world. Seriously. There are 6 billion of us on the planet. You can sit this one out. ;)
2006-11-07 08:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by Big G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are capable of becoming pregnant since you were pregnant once before. You are not considered infertile until you have been trying unsucessfully for a year. If after a year you still have not gotten pregnant, you can then see a fertility specialist. Once infertile couples are having healthy babies everyday
2006-11-07 08:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by Monica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to stress about it. Stay calm and believe.....
Even if you don't get pregnant, you can still adopt a baby. There are so many wonderful babies that need good parents to love them and care for them as their own.
2006-11-07 08:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by ticktock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your feeling i also had a miscarriage and tried getting pregnant but could not tried for a year talked to my dr and he decided not to put me on clomid just yet so i went to whole foods and brought a herb in pill form called chastenberry(vitex angus) and after 25 days of takng it i am now 35 weeks pregnant and expecting a lil boy so good luck talk to your dr
2006-11-07 08:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by chunkybooty20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough questions BEST left for your doctor to respond to.
Hope you get pregnant and carry to term a healthy baby.
2006-11-07 08:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you had a pelvic ultrasound to rule out PCOD and Endometriosis? You can also see about having your tubes checked to make sure that they are not blocked ..also get the book Taking Control of Your Fertility by Toni Welchler it will help you understand your body more
2006-11-07 08:05:49 · answer #11 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋