I lived in Miami with a woman that falsely accused me of battering her and her child whom i believe to be my daughter. I was put in jail for months until my family found out. Now, out on bail I went to my father's house to find that she moved to the same town!!! This lady is not a t all trust worthy so If I file a restraining order she'll find out where I am... Should I do it?? Would I get in trouble??
2006-11-07 07:58:30 · 13 answers · asked by lvsshanom 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
If you get a restraining order on her and she violates it, she's the one in the wrong, not you. Go for it. It can't hurt to try.
2006-11-07 08:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by quatrapiller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to find out if the girl is yours or not, if she is then the Friend of the Court will get involved for child support and visitation. If any restraining order is involved on either of you then a third party will have to get involved when visitation comes into play. However, none of this matters if the girl isn't your kid and you can ignore the woman and move on. Call an attorney and contact the local authorities to find out what you can do legally. Until then, STAY AWAY from her, make sure, if you go anywhere, that someone is with you at all times so you have a witness. It sucks, but protect yourself until the proper paperwork is handled.
2006-11-07 08:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. both parties can file and you should, from what it sounds like. who cares if she finds out where you are. if you have a restraining order and she shows up at your house, or whatever, you can have her arrested. it would probably be the best thing you can do. if you didn't batter her or the child, you should fight that too.
2006-11-07 08:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by practicalwizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save any emails or other correspondence you have from her, carry a video camera with you at all times to photo her if she approaches you. this happens alot in break ups. also get a restraining order against her and cite the reasons. i am pretty sure your address can be kept from public view, tell the police your concerns and see what they say. eventually the truth will come out but until then protect yourself.
2006-11-07 08:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
uk reader... (a) harassment is a criminal offence and falls under the risk-free practices from Harassment Act 1997. Tribunals don't have jurisdiction to hearken to cases emanating or originating from harassment on my own. (b) while you're finding at employment, I advise which you examine out discrimination under the Equality Act 2010; (c) because is an worker who's harassing you, your organization could be vicariously to blame for that worker's movements. you choose, and ought to touch your nearest CAB, call ACAS or touch an employment regulation professional.
2016-10-15 12:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by gennusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her and get on with your life. You don't want to take a chance of violating the conditions of your bail which probably required that you stay away from her. Tell you side to the judge when you hearing comes up.
2006-11-07 08:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by rec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will not find out where you are just because you file for a restraining order. I have one again my psycho ex and he didn't find me.
2006-11-07 08:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes file the restraing order and call the police if she comes near you.
2006-11-07 08:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by asmith1022_2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a lawyer. If she convinces the government that you beat her, you'll end up with a permanent criminal record. Get a lawyer!
2006-11-07 08:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by robertspraguejr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a lot like you married my ex-wife. Keep as far away form the crazy ***** as you can. The courts ALWAYS believe the woman. Liberal bunk is what it is.
2006-11-07 08:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by Spirit Walker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋