there's a dance where basically everyone grinds. Based on my friend's experience, and he's less nerdy than me, no one danced with him so i have no chance. is there anyway to alter this aka make me come across as less nerdy?
2006-11-07 07:38:33 · 9 answers · asked by Lord of the Fro 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Embrace your inner nerd. My boyfriend is a HUGE nerd, no lie. And that is one of his best qualities to me. Sure, I get mad when he stays up all night playing video games or won't stop trying to explain comic heroes to me, but I wouldn't trade him for anyone.
2006-11-07 08:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Nicki 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, stop putting yourself down. If you mean you are intelligent and do your homework and don't do things past your age and turn yourself into an idiot for the sake of popularity, congratulate yourself. You are one of the few who will make a well-rounded, successful adult.
Show confidence. Be okay with who you are and go up to a girl who is not dancing or flirting with everyone around and ask her. She's likely thinking the same as you are, that she has no chance of dancing with anyone. Look for someone sweet, not arrogant. And don't try to grind! Ewww... That's for people with no self-respect. Be a gentleman and she may even dance with you more than once. ;-)
2006-11-07 13:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by voxxylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, learn to dance for real. This is good and perfectly nerdy approach. Once you learn to move your body well, you can do grinding and so much more than grinding. You will learn it in no time and you will be better than the average crowd as a far as moving your body goes.
I'd suggest Latin dance classes like Rumba, Cha-Cha, Jive, Samba. Well, if you are real nerd I don't need to tell you more, you know how to look stuff up.
2006-11-07 11:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 10:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by goodknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn the tango or how to fox trot, then change the make up of the dance. Watch some dance contests or some dance movies to see how to move better....like "Take the Lead" is a good one.
2006-11-07 07:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think there's a concept you're missing here, called "achievable goals". first, figure out how to get comfortable with the girls at the dance, maybe dance a bit without touching first. save the grind for the next dance....
2006-11-07 08:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by domangelo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find yourself some friends that are girls, and ask them to help you out. if thats not a possibility, find a local bar that has a live band, and ask someone to dance. if you are a younger guy, you will probably have good luck with a lady that is older than you, let her lead the way. the best piece of advice my good girl-friend gave to my fiance when she was helping teach him to dance was to "be the pole." good luck!
2006-11-07 07:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by lil miss blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically let her do all the work....and as someone said before "be the pole" move a little.....but not a whole lot. Let her set the rythm, and go with it.
2006-11-07 07:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by little lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay them..
2006-11-07 07:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋