ok so i have a friend.. we have been friends for 1 year and used to hang out all the time.. well since last week everytime she is with this certain girl she will ignore me and then wen she isn't around her she will come up to me and b like heyy!!! and b all friendly. she wil be so mean to me wen she's around the other girl. it does make me mad but i don't kno wat to do. i love this girl to death and i don't kno if i should still be friends with her.... what should i do?
2006-11-07 07:35:49 · 10 answers · asked by i_love_mickeyickey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the certain girl that my friend is bein all buddy buddy with is mad at me cuz of the guy i date and because of who my cousin dates and i think she is tryin to pull all of my friends away from me just b cuz of those two reasons and see i didn't notice really last year but my friend did the same thing to her other best friend and now she is doing it to me.. i think she goes to the person that will give her the most attention and she has went to the other girl cuz she is just all buddy buddy with her and she is been hookin her up wtih all these guys and so i guess just cuz the mean girl is mean to me i guess she thinks she has to b mean.
2006-11-07 08:05:50 · update #1
sorry to hear that. sounds like your 'friend' is using you or trying to impress the other girl at your expense. i would say move on... i mean would you ever do that to her? if not, then you need to find someone who will respect you regardless of who is around. plus, she will soon find herself without a friend if she turns on people like that. even if you stayed friends with her, you may not be able to trust her. she might tell your thoughts and secrets to the other girl. ignore her and she will feel isolated and reach out to you. you can confront her about it, but I think her actions alone have demonstrated what type of person she is. friends grow apart all the time, but they don't do it by ignoring you in front of other people.
2006-11-07 07:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by cami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if she can't be your friend all the time you don't need her some of the time. If she is allowing another female to come in between you now, think of how it will be later on. You can't depend on her to be honest to herself and this other girl about your friendship so how will you be able to depend on her for the really big stuff that friends are supposed to be there for. Move on you will find someone else to be your friend some one who isn't embarrassed by being your friend. So first you need to talk to her and let her know how you feel and tell her if she can't be friendly all the time then don't do it all and if she doesn't change, drop her, you don't need it.
2006-11-07 07:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by RENA J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she pulls that, ask her where her "friend" is?
You love her to death. That's the problem. She knows she has you wrapped like that. She's feels like she can treat you as her doormat.
You have to let her know in no uncertain terms that you are not her part time friend. If she can't talk to you when what'sherface is there. She needs to get lost.
You can always do better.
2006-11-07 07:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend is trying to impress someone else, that is probably why she is ignoring you around the certain girl. Maybe the certain girl she is around is high on the social ladder. But best thing to do is talk to her about it.
Doesn't like a real friend to me if she is going to pretend she doesn't know you around this certain girl.
2006-11-07 07:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, LOVE you 1st and then you'll be able to put everything else in order. If someone wants to be your friend it doesn't matter how many other people are in their lives, you will matter as well. Talk w/ this person and say how you feel if there is NO change cut them loose, their NOT worth it.
2006-11-07 07:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by beautifultohim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is bein 2 faced and thats not a true friend
2006-11-07 07:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by SexyMandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,she not you friend the way you think she is,and this girl don't love you the way you love her,give her time to think about.
2006-11-07 07:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by lica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she isn't as interested in being your friend. Let her go.
2006-11-07 07:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by jwb674 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with her, but don't depend on her if she's gonna act all crazy on you.
2006-11-07 07:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her!! honesty is the best policy!!!
2006-11-07 07:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋