i found out today one of my family members related through marriage sleeps in the same bed as her son she is 63 and he is 34 they have a 2 bedroom house so that's no excuse i dont think anything sexual goes on well i bloody hope not
but i am having trouble getting my head round this why sleep with your child
aarrgghh it's made me feel sick
am i wrong
2006-11-07 06:41:48 · 34 answers · asked by Well well 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
no i know i'm not wrong just bloody shocked.as for the medical reasons there are no medical issues so that's not a reason.
not really approiate to post on here but i feel so disgusted and wanted others opinions
2006-11-07 07:02:24 · update #1
It's definitely not normal, that's for sure. Maybe his mother is just afraid of letting her son grow up, and maybe he's never had the opportunity to be on his own, and so doesn't really know any better. It's a very sad situation.
But they're both adults, so it's kinda hard to get involved. I would just let him know that it's something he really shouldn't be doing. And try, if possible, to find out the reasons why he feels he has to keep on sleeping with her. It could be that his mom is just afraid of sleeping alone. In which case, he shoud try and get her some help. There could be many reasons, hopefully not bad ones. :-/
2006-11-07 06:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Butterscotch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been married at one time, you have this on your benefit. additionally, you're saying you have been paying common toddler help, so which you're doing all your area, even although your marriage ended until eventually now the toddler replaced into born !! (sturdy interest, pal !!) interior the u . s . a ., divorced mum and dad can combat issues out in courtroom. in case you lived right here, you need to petition a prefer to hearken to your case. definite, it makes difficulty for the different make certain, yet isn't there difficulty there already ? while you're thinking her toddler-rearing (and you DO have an argument), you need to talk on your criminal professional, and take her to courtroom. you have been making the toddler help money, and you DO HAVE A SAY, regardless of in case you left until eventually now the toddler replaced into born. i think of perhaps your ex has some severe separation themes. perhaps the choose will accept as true with that, and advise counseling for her and the boy, to boot as separate beds. sturdy success.
2016-10-15 12:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by nocera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not wrong. It's not cool. I had to stop visiting a friend after I found that she (40+) and her teenage son were sleeping in the same bed. Discovered it accidentally, was visiting overnight, went to the bathroom, came back, they had left the light on and both were asleep, door was open. I left the next day, didn't say anything about it, and never went back. I just couldn't get that one settled into the back of MY mind, either, so I understand!
2006-11-07 06:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are wrong this is very strange. But the mother-child bond can go way to far sometimes. You should not worry about it unless it is a sexual thing Maybe if it keeps u up at night you should suggest some family counseling
2006-11-07 06:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very twisted situation. Be sure this has gone on along time. There was child abuse involved here. Boundaries between mother & son were violated. That alone is child abuse. Be it a mother & son or father & daughter the effects are the same. Children in such situations are left emotional cripples. To bad somebody had cared enough to raise the alarm bells with this man was a boy. Pity for him.
2006-11-07 06:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ooh, that's a bit creepy!
Unless there is a genuine reason ... for example, I know someone who has sleep epilepsy, which can be really dangerous - perhaps one of them suffers from something like this so needs someone close at hand just in case - even so though, you'd think they'd get a camp bed or something!
2006-11-07 06:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Funky Little Spacegirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you're not wrong.....that is weird.
My brother still sleeps in Mum's bed, and he's 11....i tried to say something about it, but Mum just puts it down to the fact that he's been through a lot. He's been through less than i have, yet i don't sleep with her...that would be disgusting! :s
2006-11-07 06:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Little Miss Helellena 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is some serious "nastiness" going on in that home. Even if its not sexually incestious, the relationship is not healthy. She should have "allowed" this man to be in his own damn bedroom 33 1/2 years ago. That is some nasty shyt!
2006-11-07 06:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by goldenlifev 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gross, i thought you were going to say a young mum and her 5 year old son, nothing wrong with that. But 63 and 34 thats just disturbing. I dont know any ideas of how to get that out of your head, its in mine too -YUK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-07 07:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing i can think of is that one of them has health issues that needs to be monitored, and sleeping in the other room could prevent being able to aide them.
2006-11-07 06:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋