2006-11-07 06:16:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your mom was obviously very young when she had you. Although the pregnancy was most likely unplanned that is not the same as being unwanted. And even if she didn't want to have a baby at that time, she did have you and she kept you. Just remember that parents are people too. All they can do is their best. Don't worry about whether you were wanted or not, just so long as you know that you are loved now.
2006-11-07 06:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by kat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You definately are not an imperfection! No child is! And as for being unwanted......if she did not want you, she had other options but yet she chose to carry you, give birth to you, and raise you into the lovely young lady that I am sure that you are.
What exactly did you overhear in regards to this conversation about your birth? Was she saying that she had regrets? Unless you heard the entire conversation, you do not know what the entire content of the conversation was about and knowing only parts of it is being very unfair to you and to mom. If you are upset about what you did hear, then go to mom and tell her what you heard and ask her for details about when she got pregnat with you. She may or may not want to talk about it right then, but I'm sure if she knows you heard something that she will take the time to explain it all to you since you are now old enough to understand, and probably the same age she was when she had you. That in itself may be enough to be scaring her, plus you said she is pregnant again.
Give her the benifit of the doubt. Talk to her. You'll feel much better when you can know the whole story.
Good Luck sweetie!!
2006-11-08 22:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can you be in high school when your mom is only 29? wow she must have only been like 14 when you where born which only makes you like 15. anyway if you over herd her say something like that I'm shore she didn't mean it you must under stand that nothing is your fault but if she was that young when you were born then she wasn't able to be a kid for very long and she may regret missing out on alot of her youth
2006-11-07 20:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear, don't ever think you were unwanted. Believe me if she did not want you there were lots of other options she could have chosen. She must have wanted you to keep you. I had my son when I was in high school, and while it was hard to raise him at such a young age, I wouldn't change it for the world!!!! Trust me, you were WANTED!!
2006-11-07 14:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My cousin is the youngest in his family by 7 years.... he's 8, the next youngest is 15.
Just because you weren't planned doesn't mean that your parents don't love you.
2006-11-07 14:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by La Vie Boheme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it too much. Even children who aren't planned are blessings and are loved very much. Why don't you ask you mom about it?
2006-11-07 14:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your here, aren't you? if she didn't want you there were ways to take care of that. I'm sure it was a hard decision at her young age to make but that was nothing personal about you at that time.
2006-11-07 14:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No idea maybe she is just stressed.
2006-11-07 15:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babies are not accidents, they are surprises!!
2006-11-07 14:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋