Why do people look for the advice on their relationship from a bunch of people they don't know, that don't truly understand their situation, and knowing more than half are simply sarcastic in nature? I still answer them myself but I have to wonder why anyway.
2006-11-07 06:13:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
'I see your point. I hope that most people just see this as a way to entertain themselves 'cause even the most sincere people don't always know what the heck they are talking about. I send a question out (rarely) hoping someone may actually have an idea on relationships that I have never thought of...something original...but it never happens. On that thought; did you know that 98% of our "free" thinking is regurgitated? Either we have thought it all before or it is someone else's thinking. This means only 2% of our thinking day is original.
2006-11-07 06:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're looking for advice because sometimes it's better to have someone's opinion in a situation. The fact that the person doesn't understand the whole story could possibly be quite true. That's why it's best for the asker to provide as much detailed info as possible. The reason why people are sometimes sarcastic is because there are alot of bored miserable people out there who have nothing else better to do than to piss other people off. These people are simply classified as a $ $ holes. So just ignore them.
2006-11-07 14:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because those in pain are looking for answers from people who arent involved so they can get a fair observational answer. Yeah, some answers are simplistic and sarcastic, but when someone asks a question, sometimes they want that one answer from someone that will help them to open thier eyes. Sometimes people who have had thier heart broken are looking for that magic pill that will make it all go away. There isnt one, of course, but its a desperation that brings them here.
2006-11-07 14:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree to u that net is a strange world for true emotions like this but in today's rat race life, u really cant share ur these feelings completely with every1, u always a fear of bad impression.actually today's chip world has made us to conserve to ourself only.
then only this remains the way to exactly ask ur answers explaining ur situation and gather as much answer as it can be from different perspective of different people and try to get some common facts around it and then try to resolve so that relationship doesnt get spoil over it.
no fear of image here.no conserveness.and finally without losing anything u get ur probs solved.
u said even u keep answering that means u also try to resolve things if not in real life.may b ur advice cld save someone's relationship.
thats what i feel and i try.
2006-11-07 14:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by sonia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so you wanna know why people want to ask a bunch of people that they dont know its because they want other peoples advice on what is the best thing to go with and we are all are not sarcastic when it comes to asking personal questions....they simply want the opioion of other people...
2006-11-07 14:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Gothic A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to get other people views on different things. Sort of like - thinking outside the box.
2006-11-07 14:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's easier to type things. It's easier to just step in somewhere where no one can judge you because how you look or how you act or a certain way you talk. I can write things down ten times easier than I can say them.
2006-11-07 14:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this, but you are dumb. ill explain and answer your uestion though.
men and women(mostly women) are a little embarrased, they like their friends advise but somtimes are scared so they ask on a website, like this, for advise. after all you'd want advise from sombody, sombody you dont know, because you mates, might not want you to like this person, people you DONT know, wont know you, or the person, so they cant make fun of you.
friends can also harm your chances by telling them, and the person who they like, will think its a joke.
2006-11-07 14:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get answer from someone who only knows that situation and will not put ur pass mistakes in there w/ their advice
2006-11-07 14:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by lalalalalalalalala23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess they don't have anyone to talk too about it or teenagers think there parents won't get it or they have friends but don't feel comfertable confiding in them. That's my answer.
2006-11-07 14:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋