Im 15 and im going to tell my mum tonight. I have 1 year old from when i lived with my dad my didnt now me then she lived in spain. I think she now in pregnant but ionly with 1 i think my sis hard me on the phone to my mate and i think she told her.
2006-11-07 06:03:08 · 34 answers · asked by mazza438200 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
OMG... your 15.. and having twins... and you already had a kid.... geeze... how stupid is that!
From your post it's obvious that you must have at the most a 8th grade education. What kind of life are you going to be able to provide for these kids.
Geeze.... this is a case for a Woman's Right to Choose and a choice you obviously should have made.
As for telling your mom... she's already disappointed.. adding another kid is gonna suck even more.
Sorry.. I have no real advice for a moron. Except you need to learn to keep your leg together!
2006-11-07 06:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by wrkey 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
There are some pretty judgemental responses to this question. Try not to get bogged down in reading them and beating yourself up, because that's not going to help anybody. Right now, you need to get focused and practical and start taking some serious responsibility for this situation.
I think that you are going to have to be honest. Whether or not you choose to go through with this pregnancy you will need support; the pregnancy will be more phsyically demanding than last time, and if you have two new babies, in addition to a one year old, you are going to need a *lot* of support. You need to think about where that is coming from right away. Does the babies' father know about the situation? What is his view?
You particularly need to sort things out if you think your mum might know already from someone else - people usually don't react well if they feel like something's been kept from them. Putting it off will only make things worse.
2006-11-07 07:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by purplepadma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're very irresponsible (ask an adult what that means) and should have been more careful. There's no point in keeping the truth from your mum about the twins-she's bound to find out sooner or later. You shouldn't even have 1 child at 15, never mind 3. Shame on you and your parents-they've made a right mess of bringing you up, haven't they? You don't have to keep them if you don't want to-think about it and do whatever you think is best. I am sorry to hear about your whole situation.
2006-11-07 06:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by Twisty 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
soz chick think u need 2 learn 2 spell ave u ever heard of contraception, Its FREE you know, no flippin excuse!!! free condoms down the family planning clinic did u miss sex education at school. Tell ya mum straight out after all shes gonna go mad either way ur 15 with one already 15 with 3 god help u. im 22 wiv 1 nd that can be hard somedays
2006-11-07 06:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm ignore the other jerks on here honey...although i did struggle 2 no exactley what you,d wrote,your just going to have to tell her, at the end of the day your a baby+im sure your mum will be sad, but your having them now so its to late to say alot.you,ll need alot of support, its tough going with 1 baby as you know never mind more and age doesnt make you a better mummy so all you can do now is your best but get as much help+advice as possible+if you ever want a chat click on my link good luck honey+a big hug. take care xx
2006-11-07 06:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. I can't believe you already have a baby and you are 15. Now you are pregnant with twins? That's alot for a 15 year old. Basically you are still a child. Good luck with that.
2006-11-07 06:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about telling your mum, worry about the fact that a million users of this site now know we have got another single mother to keep! Instead of telling Mum you are pregnant how about asking her how you get contraception? By the way, is the question written in some kind of teen speak?
2006-11-07 06:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give them up for adoption and give them a chance at life. You cannot even spell, let alone it sounds like you come from a very broken family and you've already screwed up the life of one child, Why two more....Havent you ever thought about your future, or these kids you bring into the world? You obviously have slim to none education. Thats a sad thing. I would be ashamed to tell people. And i sure wouldnt bring them into this world to be raised by you. I think you should take a deep look into adoption. Thats my opinion. Please do whats right for these babies. You have a life in front of you and you arent ready at 15 to be a mother of 3.....Thats a sad thought.
2006-11-07 06:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sorry but if there were fewer people like yourself in the world maybe we wouldn't all be paying so many taxes in order to upkeep your families with sixteen children, which you have managed to conceive by the age of 20.
i might have been able to help you if i had been able to understand your text...id suggest you worry more about the way these kids are gonna be raised than about telling your mum...good luck...
2006-11-07 06:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking for advice now?
You did not follow the advice to keep your legs crossed until you were of legal age, or at least use some form of contraception, so why would you follow any advice on what to do now.
just tell her, have the babies, then give them all away to people who are bright enough to bring them up with a decent education.
Idiot.
2006-11-07 06:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋