me and my partner of 7 years are going through difficult times. he is in turmoil at the moment, we have talked yesterday all about our problems, he has decided to move out, said he still love me and dosent want to leave but he is unhappy as he and my son dont speak. i spoke to him this morning he seemed ok and said to tell our daughter he would see her later, then he told me he would ring me later, i have been ringing him on his mobile but it keeps going to voice mail, also i have left numerous textes asking him to let me know he is ok. no reply at all, i am beginning to get worried or is it the brush off, but he hasnt the guts to tell me???
2006-11-07 04:52:02 · 16 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give him time.
2006-11-07 04:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be one of many reasons, dead battery, something else has come up.
I would just wait for him to get in touch if he has left for some space then he will only start to resent the constant calls and texts from you, he may not give you the news you want to hear when he does contact you but you will have to accept it.
I recently discovered my husband has been texting an 18 year old whilst I am heavily pregnanat with our third child so I do understand what your feeling.
Remember we are strong, independent women and have to remain so for our children.
2006-11-07 12:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by horsegal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's at work, let him work. He's probably got more on his plate than you may realize. Give him the benefit of the doubt and talk to him about it later. If he said he would call later, assume he will. Don't worry until you have to.
2006-11-07 13:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know this man for avery long time and you know sometimes in a relationship it needs space so all i can say is not to worry so much just let go a little and give it some time.because if was ment to be he will be back .
2006-11-07 13:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by featherwood2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the brush off Honey. Take it for what it is if you can't get him within the next couple of days, then forget him.
2006-11-07 12:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some space and let him come back when he is ready....if you keep calling him and bugging him he is never going to return your calls...let him sort the stuff out on his own!
2006-11-07 12:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it for a bit. If you give him time, he may come to realise how much he misses you. I suggest sitting down with a cuppa tea!
2006-11-07 13:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by _charlotte_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe just needs a little time on his own. I'm sure he's ok, he'll probably get in touch to let you know he's ok soon.
2006-11-07 13:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by feefee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can you not give him the space he requested. this means back off, and let him think, also your insecurities are over flowing on to him in big gobs
2006-11-07 12:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space to think... In time he will seak you out, he will come to you and then you will bring him before me...
2006-11-07 13:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by Fu Manchu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋