I'm 13, my breasts are a bit more developed than those of most girls my age. My mom worries a lot about me and my health and makes me wear bras like in this site http://www.anita.com/de/en/0,1,104,1478,39236__products-detail.htm I don't like it, it has 4 hooks in the back and makes me sweat. But my mom was firm. I did everything to talk her out of those bras, even fought her sometimes but didn't succeed. I gave up fighting, after all she's a wonderful mom and I don't want to damage our relationship, though I think she goes overboard and this makes me mad. So, I've been wearing those bras just like she told me.
But I envy those girls who go braless. Her breasts are free and mine under those bras. Ok, I know mom makes me wear them out f love, but I really gota wear them except in bed and when I take a shower. It's her law. How can I get used to them? Sometimes I think about taking them off when she's not around, but I promised her I'll never do this.
2006-11-07 04:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I know how you feel at 13 my mum took me to the bra places and I was already a c cup and she made me wear the exact ones and I being a tom boy hated it.. but then mum and I had a special day out we went to the movies and for a poshish lunch and then she took me to a lovely lingerie shop and they measured me up and we picked out some lovely bras together..(still with support) and now I'm a dd and I thank god she did get me proper bras my boobs are great they are so full and don't sagg.. yet!!! heehee try doing that with her ..
you will get used to it I did and I was in Australia at 44 degrees at school some days arghhhhh !!!!
2006-11-07 05:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. sorry about your situation, but ther's still ope. Try sitting your mom down and telling her how you feel about the bras. Maybe you two can go bra shopping and find some appropriate bras that are more comfortable and free... especially when ur going to school. At the same time thatnk ur mom entirely for what she is doing. Mystepmother had been very developed at ur age.. but she didn't have the bras u did.. so as she got older her chest go a bit saggy:( Wearing those brs are good for when you are going to bed that way u hav a nice support for when u go to sleep... at the same time..u can't go to school braless! That might cause some trouble.. lol.. if ur mom still doesn't budge save some money go with a friend or other older female you know and buy some to show your mother... hopefully you two can come to an agreement... I hope it all works out!
Sincerely,
::Shay::
2006-11-07 05:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Shanay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get use to something is to keep wearing it. I'm not sure the kind your wearing because the picture didn't come up, but if you don't like the ones she's picked for you, maybe you could talk her into letting you pick one out. Or try a sports bra, there conferable but give ya support.
I know that's probably not really what you were hoping to hear, but trust me when you get older your gonna thank your momma so much for making you wear one. All those girls that you wished you were like are gonna be old lady's one day and there gonna have saggy boobs down to their knees! lol Good luck,
2006-11-07 05:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by ~Jen~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What size are you, maybe you really need this style of bra. If your breasts are large they can put a strain on you back, a bra like this one will give you extra support so that doesn't happen. If you really can't stand them, ask your mom if you can spend your own money on a bra you want. If she let's you do this, you might find out that she is right, and you actually need the bra she's making you wear.
2006-11-07 09:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if you can get a more comfortable bra. I wouldn't be comfortable in that one!
A bra that is 100% cotton will make it less likely for you to sweat. And unless you have D or bigger cups, you don't need 4 hooks in the back.
If she doesn't let you get new ones, you can try using corn starch or corn startch baby powder to help keep your skin drier.
Getting used to wearing a bra requires wearing it. You'll get used to it after a while.
2006-11-07 04:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by Peter & Lora E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like them, buy ones that make you feel comphortable. But most likely you mom wants to keep you safe and doesnt want you to look so big, even moreso since you are young....
Don't worry, try to talk to your mom calmly or ask a female family membet to talk to your mom with or for you...
2006-11-07 05:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Horselover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suport is good if they are large.. You could have back problem if not contained properly.. you are just not use to it yet.. new ones are more uncomfortable at first.. give it a bit then they will feel comfy.. don't wash them that offten till you get them broken in.. (i hate new bras myself) :)
2006-11-07 04:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jackson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could ask her, as a compromise, to take you to a consultant who can tell you what kind to get that you are comfortable with and your mom approves.
2006-11-07 05:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, you're lucky! atleast you have breasts! I'm 17(and a half!) and still in training/sports bras!
(can anyone help me with this?!??!!)
2006-11-07 08:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by NoLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry hun have to say bra is gross , my daughter would throw it back at me if i made her wear that ... save ur pocket money and get a decent one
2006-11-07 05:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋